It seems like you can NEVER be negative around a girl according to pickup, but how can you not be since everyone has some negative in who they are. Like saying you weren't there for your mom or sister one time when they really needed you, or other bad decisions you've made that sometimes pop up because of bad memories. So do you NEVER talk about those bad things with a girlfriend? Also negative views of the world etc which are often TRUE like it's all a competition where there will NEVER be enough resources for everyone and MOST people are greedy selfish horrible people who create this planet, which is WHY the world is the way it is. Or the music industry if full of non talented "singers" who are made by producers who know how to tweak their voices through engineering the vocals. And there are real examples like Britney Spears who sounds PLAIN without eq, compression, autotune, etc.

So do you think getting into conversations that are AGAINST the status quo and norm are bad and shouldn't be talked about at all with girls? It seems to bring down value and attraction or would this be a way of spiking her emotions, negatively yet like a roller coaster of emotions?