I pushed my gf away against her wish(I was passing through serious gambling problems and I didn't want her to know about it).I miss her like crazy,I want her back.
I have seen her on 3 different occasion,on these occasions she keeps on telling me I am scared,evil,I bottle my feelings and that she doesn't have my time any longer(she sometimes call me dude).
Do I go direct and tell her I want her back or indirect??
Any advice would be greatly appreciated

You'll push her away if you go direct. You become the guy that she wants to get her back.

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Tell her your sorry that you pushed her away that she means alot to you and you want her in your life.
After you say those things she still probably be stand offish for a short while to test if its true. But then come around to you. Then pick up the relationship.

You can contact her and say you want to meet. You've been thinking and you have something important to say. Or you can just tell her over the phone, text, whatever.

You got this... and if you REALLY want to get her. Tell her about your gambling problem problem. That's up to you. Or better yet allude to a problem you had and let her think about it for days...then tell her later on if you'd like.

don't become clingy, be careful about that. because if you get needy about this, you'll push her away. shell lose interest. but you want to tell her that you didn't mean to push her away. tell her you will strive to keep your addictions out of your relationship. if it were me, i would not apologize for the gambling, because i wouldn't truly be sorry about that. i would only apologize that it caused me to push her away. but i can't say that that would be the best option. because gambling is a problem, and if you are high value you would quit it. over come it and grow. thats what you need to do.