| Hey guys,
Not sure this is the right section of the forum so apologies if it needs to be moved.
Here's the deal:
-Currently studying in UK since October 2014
-Met this girl that's in my class, she has no boyfriend (personally asked her by text if she has a bf one night when I was a bit tipsy, but I knew what I was doing at the time). She's sweet, quite quiet, doesn't taker herself seriously, very nice girl all together. Very fit, does yoga and shit.
-We've been quite close for a while but nothing really happened until recently.
-For 2-3 weeks not we've been much more intimate: have been seeing each other way more often, study next to each other at the library, etc...
-She seems EXTREMELY interested, and almost comes off as desperate. After a party at my student accommodation a week ago during which she was very aggressive, following me all over the place, being very touchy/physical, during a few minutes when I was sitting on a high stool, she came to "scissor" me with her legs and I eventually got a semi hard. At the end of the night, when she was waiting for her Uber to come, I went in and kissed her (mouth) before she left, didn't ask, just went in and she didn't say no.
-Needless to say we saw each other a lot this week for studying/lunch/etc... but nothing went further.
-Here's the thing, I'm trying to play this right. She's not GF material for me but I'd be glad to get some (I'm pretty sure she's not looking for anything serious either and just wants to have fun). AT this stage, all of my classmates (that were there at the party and in general) have said that I should really go for it and that it's an easy lay. For some reason I didn't do it during the party but I'm quite sure it would have been a sure thing. Also, the fact that she's in my class and I'll be seeing her for sure for the next couple of months everyday made me act kinda conservative I guess.
-Now, I've invited her to a house party on Friday, she said she'd gladly come. The house is about 3-4 minutes from my student accommodation so it's very handy. My aim is to have sex with her on Friday.
There's also one thing: like I said, she comes off as very desperate which is a turn off for me, I'm thinking that's why I didn't go for it last week. Now, I'm also "afraid" that if I try a move on her, she might turn me down as I might have disappointed her last week with not taking things further..
So should I just see how things go on Friday at the house party and perhaps ask her if she wants to go back to my accommodation for wine or something?
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