Hey everyone,

So lately I've been at some local clubs more focusing on having fun then sargeing. While doing this I've noticed that a lot of things I read from some of the top PUA's are not exactly right with having girls give you attention or with opening.

For example, just walking around the club. They say a long slow stride, good posture, head a little high, basically Alpha male body language(Which I was using). While going through a high traffic area not a single girl that passed me made eye contact. (To be honest I'm still new to this so my confidence of grabbing a girl out of the flow isn't in my comfort zone YET).

Another example this one is Richard La Ruina's is take up as much space as possible while being confident. On the dance floor no matter how much I made myself a textbook example of alpha no girls noticed me and my space was quickly filled. The other thing I noticed was when I was sitting with a friend on a couch arms spread taking a power position quick glances from people but nothing that would make any level of PUA think it was a IOI.

And my last example is last Friday night I was out with 4 girl I know. Now 2 of them are GOOD friends and the other two are always clinging to me and interested in me . But none the less I was standing 2 girls per arm taking up the most dominant position I could have. The two grabby ones flirting with me and making it VERY clear they were interested. While the other two were giving them semi threatening looks the kind a jealous ex would give. But that night I only wanted to be with my friends and not in the mood to game. I was curious to see if the experts advice was true. I had 4 girls all very attractive with me and had me locked in against the wall. All I got from girls who walked by were again quick glances that didn't signal a single IOI.

These expert PUA's have demonstrated all of this with the talk of results but as I've done the same I had no results. No girls lingered or gave playful glances or anything of the sort.

Am I either the ugliest man alive or are we being fed lies? Some one help me make sense of this. What could I have done better or done at all. (I realize I wasn't gaming these nights but still there should be something there right?)

Thanks,

-Strace

Even with all the positive things you mentioned, YOU STILL HAVE TO APPROACH.

Girls will not throw themselves on you by the dozens, no matter HOW MUCH social value you have built up.

Even the best looking guys in the club will only get a few girls approaching them per night, and sometimes not at all.

If you're looking for a strategy that will instantly allow you to not have to put any significant effort in, then you're looking for something that does not exist.

For openers my favorite it "hi I am...."

For dancefloor openers I start dancing nearby in her view and then yell "you look fun! im going to dance with you!" and make her do a twirl or something

no these aren't lies but they take effort to get good at and understand.

Like I said I wasn't out to approach those nights I was just with some friends. But I thought it be interesting to see what would come of this.

Thanks guys much appreciated!