Hey guys.

Today I had a date with a Korean girl. I met her for the first time in her job. I went there with a friend to have a coffee, and then I started talk to her. I tried twice. The first time she didn't listened me.
I started asking how to pronounce her name properly. And from there, my friend and I started talk to her.
In the end, my friend ask for her number, but was I that exchange number with her. She didn't mind it.
I sent a message to her couple hours later. Told her that was cool met her and she was very funny person. She told me before that she wasn't keen with nightclubs and drinks, so I asked her about coffee and ice creams. She told me that's sounds like a pleasure. So I asked her to go out next day at pm. She told me that she had something to do for the next few days and she herself suggested go out at Thursday. I told that I should to see in my work place if was possible. I told her that was ok, to meet her at 4 in front of her workplace.

4 days later (today). I met her at her place. We start walking to one place and I told her that I had another idea. When I shared with her where, she disagreed. She was feeling lazy to go there (was to far from here). She asked me about have a drink, and I told her that I was thinking about coffee and ice creams, because she told me before that she wasn't so keen with drinks. She told me then that she likes drinks. She suggested one place that she likes, and I thought could be good go to a place where she feels more comfortable. When the waitress asked about no smoke or smoke area, I told no smoke area and she told smoke. We went to smoke area.

When I'm writing this, I realized that I shouldn't agreed with a lot things that I did, but I was sincerely trying make her feel more comfortable, more than impress her or be just "nice guy".

Once there, I choose my dish and she did the same. We drank the same beer.

We talked about a lot of things, and I could find a lot thing in common. While we were talking the dropped the napkin and the fork in the sequence. I told her that I myself am clumsy. And share some funny histories that happened at my work. She did the same and told me about her parents. Her father is skillful person, but her mother is clumsy. I told her that I'm looking for a clumsy girl to get married, and she agreed with me, that both clumsy can be better. We have the same point of view about take responsibilities about our mistakes in the workplace when shits happens.

I told her that I'm doing a course to improve my social skills here, and that if was before in my old behavior I never would start talking to her. She asked me if invite someone to go out was something new to me. I told her that was. She told me that she herself was doing something new. That was quite challenge to her be there with me. Wasn't something that she usually does.
I also told her that there I saw some "good looking guys" I though they could have this kind of problem. They should be confident. And she told me that I'm a good looking guy.
We talked for two hours. I invite her to play pool with me, but she refused. In the last half hour she was saying that she had to she her father, we should go...

In the end, when we were near of the place that we leave, she asked me where I should go to go home, but I got that she didn't wanted that I went with her until her workplace again.

Before go home, I tried for a last time set a date to see her again, she told me to go to her workplace when I have time. But the feeling that I have that she was been only polite. She gave me a hug and gone.


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When I arrived at my hostel, I met an Italian girl, we used to talk a lot. I meet her for the first time I week ago.

Long story short: the first time that we talked, we talked just for a few minutes, she punched me in my shoulder. I told her that she had to kiss my should to heal it. She did. Few minutes later she left to smoke.

Other day we met on street. Talk more for a few minutes. She shared with me that she was looking for a job as barista. In the same day another Brazilian guy told me that he was quitting his job. I told her about this opportunity. Next day, we took the same bus to the suburb that I work.This happened by chance. On the bus, I did The Cube with her. She liked. I showed where was the place the she should go, and I went to my workplace.

Two day later (today)... I met her in my hostel.

She invited me to have a drink with her and asked me if I had another psychology test to do with her. I told her that after one drink I could do another one with her. We went to the bar in the hostel. At first we were in a table far from the other, only us. She bought her drink, and I bought mine.

We talked, we laugh.

I did some kino. Her feet, leg, shoulder.

I was to say something to her and she stopped me, and told me that she saw as a friend. When I stopping saying, she told me to say whatever was. I shared with her what I feel about her smile, and that once I had once fiancee and that the things between her and I started because I found her smile beautiful.

We talked more, I went to the toilet for the first time, she wait for me at the same table. Then she went to the toilet. She shared some pictures about her friend in Italy. I did some cold reader about her. She agreed.

She offered to buy me a drink, and agreed, and told her that the next round would be on me.

We talked more, she shared with me the she is insecurity about her appearance. Specially her legs. I told her that I like her legs.

I asked her about one tattoo that she has in her thumb. She explain about that and another one. The other is about 7 birds flying. 3 for her family (parents and herself), 3 more for her friends. I told her that the free space could be to me. She told me not. I told that we have time. And she told me that when can be good friends one day. I went to the toilet again. And when I got back she was in another table with another friends.

I knew that I had none chance by this point. But, I already gave my word. I bought the beer that I promised and gave to her. She asked me where was my beer, and I told her that I already had enough for one day. And that was the deal. I know that sounds foolish, but I just did this to fulfill my word. I'm not wanna be the kind of person that do what says when is good to him. Now, next time, I have to think twice before say something like this.

I said goodbye to everyone, and left.

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About the Italian girl, I didn't expected anything from her. But I though worth try a shoot. But the Asian girl, I had some expectations about her. And now I'm not sure if was something that I did or didn't, or if was too much to her to handle with, as she told me that wasn't the kind of thing that she usually does.

One thing only about the Italian girl, since I started red about PUA I tried avoid go to the FriendZone. I do kino as much as I can, and trying making some sexual comments, show some sexual interested. To make sure that she knows that I'm not seeing her only as a friend. What more I can do avoid FriendZone. I would rather don't have friendship at all and she stopping talking with me, but, if she does, she knows that I have some sexual interested on her.

There is lots of talking and no sexual chemistry at all in these stories.
"Kino" is a stupid concept and has nothing to do with anything. Stop using the word. Pay no attention to anyone teaching the concept of "kino". It's designed by socially awkward retards. And their advice is what you'd expect from someone in the category.

Yes, you need to touch her, but that comes with more than random little fleeting touches. Most important early part is proximity. Sit next to her, never across from her. Make strong eye contact. Build pauses into your conversations, for increased sexual tension. Always kiss her within an hour of being on a date. Don't force it, but you should be leading up to this point.

Have you read anything from 60YOC? I think you'd benefit from his stuff.

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Thanks mate.
You are damn right. Touching itself is not a big deal. I have been watching Yad videos and he can attract the girls without touch them.

Make strong eye contact and pauses it's something that usually I don't do. I'll start apply this from now. Usually I'm not feel comfortable enough to hold eye contact for a long time. And don't do pauses afraid of let the conversation dies. But I will starting doing it.

I never hear about 60YOC. What is that?

Cheers mate.

60YOC is an author. He basically writes about how to find women who are initially receptive to you, and how to get her turned on, and back to your place for sex.

60 is not a complete toolbox, but it sounds like you've got the social part down. All you're missing is the sexual aspect, and that's most of what 60 teaches.

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RSDTyler

Hey man, thanks for the tip. Was very good one.
I already finished the first book, and almost done the second one. But I have a doubt. I'm not sure when I have to stopping talking and let her talking by herself.

So, first I introduce myself. Hold her hands until she let me do it. Make eye contact from begin. But I need throw some bait to make her speak, right?

In fact, I tried with a girl today.
I opened a 3 set. My friend was talking with two, and I was talking with one. I made one question and let her talking and talking. I tried no show any expression in my face. She said something. Made a pause. Said something again, and another pause. And she was avoiding looking to me. I think was weird. She was feeling embarrassing because she was talking alone. But this was my first try since that I red the first book. I didn't try touch her hands. I think was good like an experience...

In the end, they left, and I got a number from the other girl. That in my opinion is better that the girl that I tried the eye contact thing.

Yeah, 60 goes a little overboard on the non verbal. Especially for the daytime. That's really written for bars(which means night time).

I was suggesting it to help give you some pointers on non verbals. 60 says to "risk creepy" and I think you'd BE creepy to a lot of girls if you do exactly what he says. I'd be more animated and talkative than he suggests.

I would also say it's more useful for being deeper in the interaction(even at bars). I don't really like how he suggests starting things off.

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