I'm dating a cute girl who is probably 125 pounds 5'9" I think she's hot.
I was shocked to find out that for most of her life she was extremely obese, 300lbs.
She says she lost the weight in the last 4 years.
This corresponds exactly with when she divorced.
I guess it's a bit of a red flag, but we all have our pasts don't we.

I wonder what psychological issues she may be carrying.
I wonder is if the novelty of sexual attention will keep her from focusing on anyone.

i think what your saying may be true. but i think you can be everything she needs. before all this pickup stuff you were probably a looser. i know i was. still working out the kinks on my end. now that we can talk to women, i guess it is pretty easy to go off and talk to other women. id try it and just see how it goes. give her a chance.

I am naturally attracted to women with ugly duckling syndrome like this. They used to be ugly ducklings but became hot. There are definitely both pros and cons.

I believe the main thing you should watch out for is the fact that, since she pushed herself through a dramatic improvement, she will eventually project those diligent expectations onto her partner. In other words, she may end up resenting you if you ever show any laziness.

Having a woman around like that is great if you want to keep yourself on your toes to constantly improve and give everything in life your 100%, in a way. But there will be less compassion in the relationship eventually. But that isn't anything a little (a lot) of heartfelt communication can't solve.

I'm only speaking from my personal experience, though. And I wouldn't wish my personal experiences onto anybody, so it might be best for most people to stay away from extreme cases like this.