This wednesday a girll i had beeing seeeing for three weeks and sooo woke up suddenly one morning, and decided because she still had feelings for an ex who didnt love her (and abused her too), and as a resultt said we couldnt date anymore, i knew of these wierd feelings from the start cause we said we'd work through them together, and after two weeks everything seemed fineee but then out of the blue, she comes up with this, and ends things over a fb chat, inspite of me being round hers two hours earlier and she saying everything was ok, my question being has this sort of indecision happened to anyone else before, andddd do they ever come back after this "break" or am i a permament rebound??

GFTOW and this won't be an issue anymore for you.

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i agree kinda what im doing just getting some old contacts back up, butt always curiouss about whats happened to other people when shit happens to me

Hell yeah dude. It happens to dudes all the time.

Where you went wrong was your lack of experience and/or understanding. Her making that decision was simply a test to see if you were worthy of being with her. Sure she may of missed the ex, but because you're the person in her life it is your job to lead her. The proper interpretation of her message should of been " I'm still heart broken about the ex.. LEAD ME PLEASE - Tell me something or DO SOMETHING", but instead you just accepted her decision. Which is cool we all have to learn.

At this current point I would suggest walking away. She's still in recovery and you need more experience with other women before you're ready for this kind of experience.

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this was genuinely really good advicee although im sorry too say you were too late lol, i wound myself right up, convinced myself that the breakup was somehow my fault, got emotional and pestested and pestered her like a bitch, obviouslyyy completly the wrong thing to do, butt ofc ive learnt my lessson, im moving on now and leaving her, and well i really was the best i could be when i was with herr, sooo yeahhh given her space she might come back, and if not then ohh well for her to do what she did to mee she was probably too unstable and physco anyway, thanks anyway for pretty solidd and good reply