I dated her about 6 months then she tells me she's not sure if she wants to be in a relationship and we stopped talking as she doesn't answer my texts/ calls.

SO what things really help keep you from thinking about her?

It's like if I try to stop I think more about her.

I am gaming other numbers I have setting up dates though I'm not sure if it's flakes or not as they're older numbers, and using tinder. BUT there has to be something else I can do to forget besides get another girl.


I do make music but it's just hard to do so, also I do lift weights, and surf the internet and watch movies but I'll think about her when I watch movies

Hi there,

I've moved your thread to general questions. Please read the rules for posting in the relationships sub forum.

For your issue:

Erase her from your life. Delete her number, FB, Twitter, email, everything.

Start there.

Date others. Open some online dating profiles. Hang with friends and meet as many new people as you can.

Have fun!

Really its just a matter of introducing more and more women into your life.

If you are going out 2-3 times a week at least with different girls you won't even have time to be concerned with her.

It takes about 2-3 months to get over a breakup.

And the more you let go of the faster that process will be.

Everytime you call or text her you reset that clock. You need 2-3 months of no contact. Delete all pictures of her on your computer, and get rid of all the things she gave you or made you. Just delete the memory of her from you physical word and stop contacting her.

You'll roller coaster up and down from time to time, but in a short time you'll forget that you ever knew her and thats a promise.

One of my boys ended up in bed with one of my ex girlfriends after seeing her at a party a lil while back and I was a little upset by it. Mainly because we had just broken up a year prior. Then I as I began to think,, " Which one of my ex girlfriends would I not be mad that he slept with" .. It was all the ones for 3+ years ago. Because after a while, its like we were never even together. And i've met some amazing women. So this will be the same way for you. You'll fall in love again. Just give it time.

And if you REALLY go no contact completely.. She'll come back. They always come back.

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