Hi guys.

This is how my interaction with women is(when I want a relationship):

1)1-dates are always smooth.
2)I make her dig after me.
3)Often, they fall in love with me.
4)I always end up, where I want(actually, my game is really tight).
5)The trouble - I go full melodrama and out of emotional control.

So right now, im in trouble with my GF. It is me who can't shut the fuck up when I hear something I don't like. I want to control her and I need her to boost my ego. And it feels like that I destroy everything that is good.

I don't think I need PUA advice. I think I need advice from experienced people from relationships or advice on personal development.

Thank you.

Look at the relationship with your mom and father for similarities to what your doing with the gf's.
Where in past outside of GF's has a type of this behavior been displayed.

Once identified, find the source/base feeling (Fear, anxiety, etc) at the root of the behavior, then there's
techniques to break through it.

Thank you. This is something to think about.

Well at least your another who is seeing the LACK of REAL RELATIONSHIP advice Pickup has. For a while I was still "gaming" when in relationships when it is a different ballgame in small but big ways.

One thing is YOU HAVE TO MAN UP and be a man with a plan, not in the pickup sense of what to do that day BUT WHAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS ABOUT. Ask the big questions do they want kids, what they want out of a relationship, what needs, boundaries.

ALL THE SHIT PICKUP DOESN'T TEACH. So it's good you recognize that and can start working on that aspect of life. What SUCKS is that it will takes LOTS of failures just like the approaching of "pickup" was.

Don't worry you're not alone. I'm in the same boat and just had a girlfriend break up because I didn't talk about all the things that really mattered