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 Post subject: Bus Question
PostPosted: Wed Feb 04, 2015 11:58 pm 
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I'm taking a bus and grab a seat and place my backpack on the adjacent seat and then unexpectedly 2 girl's walk on the bus and sit in the same row and they were pretty cute. I was already in the middle of reading my book and checked and there were only 3 pages left in the chapter so I decided I would talk to them or at least the one closest to me when I finished the chapter. After I finished I noticed they were talking to each other so I decided to wait and their convo seemed endless. About a minute before we reached our destination they finally stopped talking and I didn't engage, afterwards I realized I should have at this point for sure but there's a 95%+ chance I see them again as I can't imagine them taking this specific bus only once so I wasn't too worried about rushing things.

So the seating arrangement went like this: Row= | Me B _ 1 2 | ( M=Me, B=Backpack, _=Empty, 1=Girl1, etc.)

Question 1 : Should I just interrupt them speaking so I can talk to them? Any particular way to go about that?
Question 2 : I was more interested in Girl2 but she was physically blocked from me so it seemed like it was Girl 1 or no girl - any way to cleverly go about talking to Girl2?


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 Post subject: Re: Bus Question
PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 1:11 am 
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First off the seating and positioning plays little significance when approaching. However after you approach getting into a position where you are "locked in" is beneficial however I think that is a minor issue for the problem at hand.

Don't wait for them to stop talking, thats a missed opportunity in the making. You just need to bite your lip and approach.
Some good ideas of doing so would have been,
"I have a question about something I have been reading...."
"I need an opinion on something."
"Hi my name is ohmyitsrai"
doesn't matter what you say as much as you say it

and your second point isn't even an issue. You should be showing more interest in girl 1 anyways while negging girl 2..........


However its obvious from your post you haven't even read the mystery method or the game or anything else for that matter. This is all basic stuff and doing research before asking a question such as this will get you much farther in both relationships and life.


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 Post subject: Re: Bus Question
PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 4:22 am 
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A) Seems rude to just interrupt
B) i could barely see girl2 so I couldnt even talk to her let alone neg her


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 Post subject: Re: Bus Question
PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2015 6:01 am 
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I cant answer your second question but regarding your first question: it is absolutely fine to interrupt.
simple pick up had a video addressing this very issue. less awkward = more awkward.
the idea is when you are trying to make things less awkward by waiting for the perfect moment to talk to them, things will actually become more awkward.
so just jump in whenever feels natural, dont wait for them to finish their conversation, that's very unnatural.

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 Post subject: Re: Bus Question
PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 12:18 am 
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A: its only rude if you leave one person out of the conversation completely you have to acknowledge them both and keep them both in the conversation. Don't irritate the girls you have to have a purpose to your conversation, what is it you want from them? Knowing your purpose and stating it to yourself will not only make the conversation easier but the approach will be more natural and you will feel more confident.

B: There is a lot of confusion about what a neg is and I think you have a different idea as well. Look at it as a way of NEGating the idea you are attracted to girl2. If you treat her like an after thought (not ignore her) during the conversation she will be more relaxed as you clearly aren't hitting on her. the fact you couldn't even see her helps this even more so, it was a boon in your favor.

If you have seen the movie crazy stupid love, just remember the scene where he tells a girl she is boring after everything she says, thats using a neg incorrectly ;) and its just rude at that point and it becomes an insult.


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 Post subject: Re: Bus Question
PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:19 pm 
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You're a thinker man, and over thinking as you are in this post is anti seductive.

What you are going to learn as you get more experience with picking up women is that it does not matter what you do or say; the only thing that matters is how you say it and the energy you are giving off while saying and doing whatever it is.

So it doesn't make a difference. Sometimes I'll switch seats and sit next to a girl on the subway to talk - sometimes i'll stand over them, sometimes i'll tap them on the shoulder etc.

It makes no difference; all that matters is that you take action immediately. The first approach is rarely if ever going to feel comfortable; unless you just left a chick or just got laid. You have to break that ice. I've been doing this for over 7 years and I still feel a bit apprehension before making the first approach. But i could careless; I know thats all apart of the process and I do it anyway.

Act now.. Don't think about what. Just come from an attractive place.

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