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hi seej, you sound really young. i'm going to give you some pointers that will hopefully help you out:
1. never cry in front of a woman again unless someone you love has died.
2. never beg for a woman to take you back again. it's the exact opposite of what works.
3. never buy a woman a bunch of roses again unless it is a completely random act and has nothing to do with a fight or a birthday or anything like that whatsoever.
4. never tell a woman "i love you" for the first time until after she has said it to you.
5. never do more for a woman than what she'll do for you. don't go out of your way. again, it's counterproductive.
6. never get back together with a woman who has broken up with you. this is very difficult to do in the beginning but you *must* love yourself more than any girlfriend. until you have learned to do this, you should not be in relationships to begin with. there are *always* better girls out there. always.
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I agree with some of these but not all and just wanted to share my opinion as someone who has been in multiple LTR's.
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#1 - You can cry in front of a women for more reasons than just the one listed above... she wont think differently
#2. I agree with 100% nice post
#3. I agree with the underlying message that flowers wont do anything... and if your going to buy a gift for a girl its because you want to give fully without receiving anything and it comes from the frame of "im a giving person who always flows in abundance".
#4 I agree with this 100% nice post
#5 I dont agree with this because when you are married or in a seriously relationship you can give to your women... and you should. Just dont make it from a needy frame or expecting something in return.
#6 I agree with 100% -- Cold turkey that shit. There is always...ALWAYS better than a girl who breaks it off with you.
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