Hi,

So I'm pretty new to this, I've been exploring this new world online a lot recently and it's something I'm really interested in. I've read a few of Neil Straus' books in the past but that was purely for entertainment.

I've never been that confident with women but I've done ok on my own so far. I'm currently in a situation I'd love some advice on...

Been in this one girls bed 3 times now, each time we've kissed but she's said she isn't sure if we should do anything more as we work together and it 'could get awkward'. We were texting quite a lot for a short period of time but I was the one to initiate every time. One night when we were out drinking after work, and fairly drunk I suggested going on a real date but she 'ummed' for a bit and turned me down by just saying 'I don't know...' and trailing off. So I cut contact with the texting. She then seemed to go cold on me after I stopped texting her, was no where near as friendly or anywhere near flirty with me once I stopped texting her so I gave up. Until one night we ended up in bed again, but she still wouldn't go any further than kissing. Anyway recently I was really drunk and jokingly brought up the subject of going on a date again, and she told me in quite a frustrated voice "You need to stop asking me out when your drunk".

I do have other girls I'm currently texting and enjoy going out and getting numbers, but I'm wondering whether it is worth pursuing this girl. I can't work out if she is confused about my level of interest, is playing hard to get or simply isn't that interested? The 'stop asking me out WHEN YOUR DRUNK' part suggest she is interested but wants to make sure I am also, or maybe I'm just reading to much into it?

Any advice would be welcome, thanks.

Maybe its that she wants you to stop asking her out when you're drunk?

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