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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 7:03 pm 
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I've dug around and watched a few youtube videos of various puas. I've noticed some of them have a tremendous amount of energy when they are in field. One said that you have to have a higher energy than the girl you approach or she would be uninterested.
I've also noticed some other top puas with a rather low amount of energy that say nothing about the topic. They do seem to have stronger body language and don't put on as much of an entertainment show.
QUESTION= Does the amount of energy you radiate affect your approach and mid game?? I perceive mid game as a balancing act. I don't have the highest of energy, just average so are there ways to substitute other tactics to make up for this if it even matters?


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2015 7:18 pm 
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It's just an attribute to personality, but it is an attribute that is easier to fake than others. You should focus on making the attributes that come naturally to you more attractive.

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Does the amount of energy you radiate affect your approach and mid game??
Yes. People will feel the way you are feeling. It will rub off on them so to speak.

It's like when someone comes up to you and tells you that their dog died. You will begin to feel what they are feeling, sad because of what happened. But if you go to a club and just feel awesome and alive, the girls you are talking to will also start to feel awesome and alive just by being around you.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2015 8:42 pm 
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What the FUCK is mid game, end game, pregame, mother fuck all that 100% meaningless and 100% useless terminology. I don't ever want to know what any of that bullshit means because it is irrelevant to me.

Go to the girl.

Show her your positive infectious energy.

It rubs off on her because women are mirrors. Game over bro.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 03, 2015 2:49 am 
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Well form my understanding "midgame" is merely an abbreviation for your whole interaction with a person (male or female) after the initial hello.
Just saying midgame is a lot easier than saying: [small talk, having fun with her, flirting, teasing, buidling a connection and spark, getting over the touch barrier and making future plans..] I dont know any other terminology tho bc im new here..
But what my post is saying is that i dont have that "infectious high energy" that you talk about, oceanx so am i completely screwed bc of that, or should i work on adopting it? or can i focus instead on things like "midgame"- flirting, teasing & getting to know her and just having a good fun time interacting?
I dont understand "women are mirrors" can u explain a little? i would like to know


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 03, 2015 12:22 pm 
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My bad I was a lil harsh in my dissection of the terminology and stuff.

As far as having the high energy, it cannot be faked. But as you get out in to the world and begin speaking with women, you will begin to develop an internal confidence that is built up as the result of your prior successful interactions. This can give you more of that centered energy you were speaking of in the op.

More importantly is to show the girl your male energy and have confidence as you have a nice playful little interaction with her. And most importantly is to start where you are now, and go out and get rejected and stuff so you can modify your approach and get better as you go.

As far as women being mirrors, in general (not all the time) they tend to reflect what you feel about yourself. Example: A guy just fapped and he goes out and while he's walking a girl quickly looks away because he is radiating disinterested energy. Another example: A guy is feeling great about himself & the world for whatever reason; he goes to initiate a convo with the very same girl who would have rebuffed him in the first example and she feels his energy and mirrors it & returns a similar form of that energy back to him.


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