Okay, so this super cute girl 100% my type matched with me on tinder yesterday. We had met very briefly in real life once before in the past (uni student), and she recognized me. We were chatting all night, and I got her number. She agreed to go out for coffee sometime next week,and seemed pretty excited. Today when I'm setting up a a specific day and time, she starts getting hesitant about meeting for some reason. She says she's more looking for friends, yet she still agreed to grab coffee. I'm confused. Is there anything I can do, or should I call it quits? What do you guys make of this?

Next time turn it around the moment she says something like that... Say something like:"What did you think was happening then?"... now just ignore her comment and keep going as you would have normally.
Pay atenttion for friendzone signs... If none pop up, you are still good to go, otherwise abort.

Hope things work out for you mate.

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Thanks man, that's what I figured I should do. What are some friend zone signs I should be keeping am eye out for?

Typical friend zone signs include talking about her boyfriend, rejecting attempts at kino, and especially if she mentions other guys that she is dating or wants to date. Keep in mind, these can also be viewed as shit tests, she is testing your frame. Make your intent clear, but don't push too hard.

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Arrange the date as is.
Anyone rushing for a title I'd steer clear from.


Most enduring relationships begin as friendships anyway, it's a starting point with minimal investment. Unless you're looking for a quick lay I'd by all means meet up with her.

Thanks guys. What do you suggest I do between now and the time we meet? Keep initiating text conversation? Or just wait till coffee?

no more conversation...save some for coffee....but a few playful texts are always wecome

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What does your intuition/gut tell you?

Gut tells me not to

There you go.

You probably got a bit too eager in your text messages and she sensed it out and pulled back. Post the text message thread.

I say go anyway and try your luck. It sounds like you need the experience anyway. So meet for coffee if she's still down; a friend zone can always be turned around if she finds out that you're not actually friend material. No girl is just looking for friends. Its non sense.. Who doesn't want to be swept off their feet by the love of their life?

Everyones saying don't call her, and while I agree, because of you're level of experience; be aware that if you were skilled you could pick up the phone, call her, and make fun of her for trying to friend zone you. They'll set you right where you need to be. All friend zone attempts are test until you validate it by succumbing to the emotion.

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Uh oh. Looks like she deleted her tinder. Good thing I have her number. What should I do to prevent her from flaking out now?