So i've been talking to this girl for about a month now..It's only been a month and i can honestly say I never had a connection with a girl like her before (i actually enjoy talking to her and stuff)...When we're together in person it's amazing, people say we look like newly weds and stuff and say we look cute....BUT texting is a whole different story....atfirst texting was nice, we would both tell corny fake stories. lame but funny jokes. and just enjoy learning more about each other....But recently the text have become more dry and lifeless (from her part)...but still when we see each other in person we still have an amazing time

anyway we usually talk everyday (hell we usually see each other everyday) but i haven't heard from her all day (even tho we made plans to go to a game and a adult boom store) i texted her around 6 just to see if we were still on and she still hasn't replied


now usually this wouldn't be a concern but i checked her twitter page (creepy i know, and i fucking hate myself for doing that) anyway she retweeted a tweet saying "Sometimes you just have to accept that some people can only be in your heart, not in your life." that was around the time she stopped texting me.....

i know i probably need to give her her space and stuff but idk im not good with this relationship stuff....if it was any other girl i wouldn't give a damn at all and probably fuck another girl...but i genuinely care about this girl and want to try and make it into something more....what should i do?

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Is this a Romantic thing? Have you slept with her?

haven't slept with her yet...she's only been with one guy one time and she thinks that was a mistake so now she's waiting for somebody she loves

i put in ALOT of time, money and love into this girl so im trying to make this work lol

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Oh I mean is it dating as in both like each other romantically? Trying to figure out if this is a friendship thing more....are you 2 dating? Kiss?

Too much of anything is not a good thing.

Have you transitioned to offline interactions much? Texting gets old fast, and should be used sparingly to keep the spark going in between meets.

nothing official but we act like a couple, i just recently got a kiss from her (Tuesday) she lets me touch all over her and stuff and even kiss all over her neck.....but she wants to be friends (she doesn't want a relationship right now) she wanted me to talk to other girls but got really jealous when i do...she's the queen of giving mixed signals

so we're not officially together but when we're together we might as well be a couple


@N2thevoid yea you could be right, i mean we see each other all the time and when we're together it's nice but yea the texting stuff could be getting old

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

this is about the same girl

i-fucked-up-vt187249.html

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

It sounds just like a friend tbh. A friend who you kissed once and likes to cuddle or touch sometimes. But im not seeing anything that signals that the connection goes 2 ways. It just doesn't sound romantic. From the other post and this one she has feelings for another guy or guys. She doesn't share the feelings you have for her. You can't have a connection with someone who doesn't feel the same way...Sorry if this is harsh but you're way too into this girl

ok well that could be true.....you're probably 100000% right...so what should i do? give her time and keep trying, wait till she misses me or whatever, or what?

cause i can easily bounce back...thing is i really want her

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Ok so let's assume she was in fact referring to you in her twitter post...

really do you want to be with a girl who is so passive aggressive? Someone not mature enough to convey their needs to you? Really man, go beyond the 'feeling' and figure out what attributes are important to you in a partner, because I doubt this is it.

you're right..like i said in the other post, idk what got over me....i slipped up and let my guard down and ended up getting my heart broken lmao......imma just treat her like every other girl now.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

It's ok to "let your guard down" aka 'being vulernable', just improve your screening process so you do so with the 'right' woman who'll appreciate all you have to offer.