You're so consumed with 'losing something' you never even had to begin.

So you're operating from a Scarcity frame. You're like the old man in the desert who happens upon a water hole who desperately drinks all the water immediately without so much as a second thought.

You'll get over this once you realize you can create opportunities with other good looking, high value women.

What's the secret to this all? Being a better man. Until then you'll see other as being higher value than you. That's where the desperate scarcity energy comes out of, and people sense it.

Yes that's right... people do sense when you I feel like these... Girls smell it. I'll work on this everyday. If there's more good advice from anyone go for it.

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Everything that comes, comes to pass. Good and bad are both in constant transition, and complaining about one is about as pointless as boasting about the other.

And your 10 is my 2. See how that works
OP take note of the word YOU in that post. That's the key. Every guy is different. Just because YOU find her unbelievably attractive doesn't mean all other guys do as well.
Reps. That's what you need. Repetitions. Put yourself in situations with these "tens" you speak of and you will get used to it and it will become no big deal.