So I've recently been seeing this one girl i've been on and off with for over a year. It seems everytime we see each other after a long period of time there's just a spark of attraction. So we recently started hanging out a lot again. We'll stay at each other apartments about 2 or 3 times but Sunday i asked her out on our first formal date. I was originally planning on going ice skating but due to our schedules I decided we'll just go for a cliche dinner date. The only problem was i felt completely out of it the entire time. There was silence and sometime forced conversation. Overall just a bad date. I went back to her apartment later and left without staying the night due to her studying for an exam the next day me being "distracting". This is the first time we've ever not had a great time together and I'm worried because it was the first time it was a formal date. She hasn't texted me since and she normally texts me 4 or 5 messages everyday. What is my next move? Wait it out or call her and chat her up and try and hang out

is she your girlfriend?