Whats going on guys.. Kinda new here and like a lot of the stuff you guys have posted. Hopefully you can help me out.

A bit about me.. I'm 25, pretty good looking.. Most the women I've hooked up with were either at a club or through my social circle.

My question has to do with day game. I've never found it awkward approaching in a club because at the end of the day, I feel every girl at a club just wants dick. If you're suave in the way you speak to her, you generally get a pretty good response. Day game however scares the shit out of me. I see chicks smiling at me that are generally very attractive and I don't have the balls to approach them mainly because I'm scared of what to say. I'm not looking for pick up lines, more so seeking a natural way to go about it. how to get over the initial approach and being scared of not knowing what to say. I find myself only having problems with this during the day because I feel weird just going up to a girl at a store, street w.e. and just approaching her. More so I believe its a fear of not knowing what to say to her.
Today, I was at a dollar store just grabbing some random shit and I saw a girl that I would of liked to approach and totally froze and began thinking way to hard about what I would of, could of or should have said to her.
I've read enough to know that AA doesn't ever go away, you just learn how to deal with it.. What about flowing a conversation, is that something that will improve after each approach?

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I found it made things easy when I stopped filtering myself to have the perfect opener. I say what comes to mind to spark a conversation and it tends to revolve around the environment. I'll even open with a compliment, although I know a lot of people frown on that, and then quickly turn it into an introduction telling her my name and usually she'll return her name. For instance, the girls you say you see smiling at you, I'd walk up and say "you have a nice smile" and before she could say thank you, I'll say "My name is Jack" and start talking about what I'm doing and ask her questions about what she's doing. I try to keep a natural conversation going until I can find a statement from her that I can create a bond. It's easy to get a conversation started when you don't come off too gamey but not avoid expressing attraction.

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It's called game right? Well games are fun besides the worst thing that could happen is she doesn't talk to you well if she doesn't talk to you she's up tight and no fun anyway. Right so what the fuck do you have to lose. I got better with women when I stopped worrying about stepping on my dick.

It sounds like you're confident when you're out at night well just have the same mentality during the day. Me gaming this girl is making her have a better day at least that's the mentality I always day or night.

So stop over analyzing if you like a girl or she smiles or whatever say high and talk to her.

Hey there,

Don't over-think this!

As Ashton Kutcher's character says in the film 'Spread': "There's only ONE chat-up line that exists. Hi & your name. All the rest is bullshit!"

I happen to agree!

Improv it man. What was she looking at? Make a conversation about that.
What I do is I see a girl and then I quickly surmise the situation and come up with something to say that fits the situation so the girl feels totally comfortable in having a little convo.
Oh yes. By the second or third girl of the day you should be in a good flow assuming you're having good interactions overall.

I feel you bro, noob here to. Did my first official gaming today and I'll be doing game quite frequently, maybe 85% more than night game. I do have experience with shyness and being a pussy though.

What I usually do Is think about all that can go wrong, for example:

- In boxing I could break my nose, be left unconscious, break a tooth(again), my parents discover I fight, some one could break me a rib or two, i would be humiliated, shamed and quite frankly mad(in the best case)

with random unknown girls, what can go so terribly wrong? she has a boyfriend? she isn't interested?
who really cares? I know I don't

Trust me. Girls fucking hate it when guys try and pick them up during the day. It stinks of desperation and they just wanna go about their business without some asshole coming onto them. You will get it wrong every time. I mean ffs. Would you fucking like it if ugly girls tried to chat you up every fucking day with some fucking cringeworthy chat up line? Most of you think you're so fucking good looking and I bet you are not. Give it up already or be a desperate, fucking creep all your life. Girls smile because they are being polite but the dudes on here think it's a come on. Christ you guys are such fucking losers who don't know women AT ALL.

Well arent you mr. Glass half full... You just radiate positivity dont you

I'm "pretty good looking" too. Just so everyone knows.

This helped me out a lot. I was in the same boat. I think it will definitely help you.
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