Hey guys,

Me and my ex-girlfriend dated around 2 years ago and just about a couple months ago we have become fairly close friends and see eachother every day (just for lunch break during school). Now, i don't want to sound like an AFC but feelings from the past are beginning to creep up again and im finding it hard just to be friends with this girl.. One of my friends who is knowledgeable in pickup himself says he can see an underlying tone in her that shows she still has these feelings for me but she is not willing to admit it. Now i normally would just try and game her again but everytime i do we get close for about a week and then she fades away for 2-3 weeks. How would you guys carry through with this situation?

why did you break up with her?

I'm going to guess that she did the breaking.

Next time she starts orbiting you, don't game her. Instead, be gaming other girls if you already aren't doing so. She will be able to tell from your aloof and confident demeanor. She may end up "gaming" you in her own way.

big issue with her parents

Move on. Regardless of your feelings, make the women you pursue meet your standards of how you want to be treated, or find someone else that fits the bill. GFTOW.

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what type of issues? and how old are you both?

Hey man what I'm gonna suggest you do varries a little from the other posters, but next time you see or talk to her say hey we should whatever you think would be fun. When are you free next week? If she agrees go out have fun don't worry about labels or any of that make it your goa to just have a good time with her. It goes well rinse and repeat. You keep showing her a good time romancing her properly She'll eventually bring up being exclusive again, but you don't mention it until she does. If she gives you the ljbf say I like you I think you're a great girl, but I'm not interested in friendship I'm only interested in you romantically, but give me a call if you change your mind. www.understandingrelationships.com check that out I'm certain you'll find it helpful.

I think the less you listen to your friend the better off you'll be.

Be yourself, she fell for you for a reason. Pickup fills your mind with rubbish, be the man you're supposed to be rather than trying to be somebody else who she likely wasn't all that attracted to in the first place.