Hey everybody, hope everyone's been off to a great start for 2015.

I'm a new guy to the forum, though I've lurked around forums for the last 3 years. I'm only 21 and still a college student, though I graduate in 6 months and plan on starting a professional career.

The reason I find myself here is because I have run into a major dry spell. I haven't slept with a girl in the last 5 months, although I've slept with over 30 girls since I was 18 years old. This issue is definitely mental and it has me all screwed up. My problem is closing. I have no problem talking to a lot of girls and getting numbers, etc... but I have hit some sort of mental block. The mental block consists of me over-scrutinizing women I meet and finding faults in them that turn me off. I don't know why I do this, but it's so powerful that I have found myself in bed with a new girl multiple times and I am just completely unaroused, unable to perform and follow through. I think part of the problem is that I have previously slept with a perfect 10 and now I just don't respond positively to the average 7 or 8, and I somehow convince myself 9's have some sort of issue.

However, this could also be just a bunch of bullshit I tell myself because I am somewhat afraid of sex. This fear stems from the fact that my 3 best friends have all accidentally knocked up chicks and are now tied down with children, all under the age of 22.

Well anyways, I'm here to hopefully improve my closing game and to conquer my dry spell. I'm hoping that by reading all of your stories I can re-wire my brain and get over this bullshit I am hung up on.

I look forward to what's to come!
Cheers.

Interesting, I've have had similar experiences, once you've been with higher quality women, the others don't really do it for you. Try hitting up the higher end nightclubs with the stunners

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