Hi i need help what to do with this girl, ive started talking to her about 1 years and half ago then i met her only once which was after few months and the next day she admits she likes me but it didnt work out between us and she got a boyfriend after a couple of months. we used to talk to everyday but i didnt bother to text her anymore and she would always end up texting me asking how im going then she stops replying makes an excuse and she did that for a while then about last year (when it was almost over) we talked for like few days and we stop then happens like every couple of weeks. few weeks ago she texts me tells me come clubbing that she wants to see me and its been ages and stuff she was with her boyfriend she told she got into a fight with him and not to worry because its almost over. i have a girlfriend and she knows that but i wasnt with her that night. then the next she gives signs like she wants to see me asking what im doing tonight and stuff then i go see her...the day she starts telling me about shes not having feelings for her boyfriend anymore and she wants to break up with him and also she got things to do this year and she wants to do it alone and she had been with him for about 8 months. and she also tells me that she feels attracted to other people she meant me she told me she wanted to kiss me when we were together that night i saw her but couldnt because we both in a relationship. then she breaks up with her boyfriend and she sees me the next day and keeps asking about my girlfriend why dont i see her and stuff then she says if you dont feel it anymore just end it. i broke with my girlfriend last week then i see her and i can feel shes changed a bit she didnt text me after i left her like she did all other times but i ended up texting her the next day... and she barely replies like before and always acts like shes busy and stuff someone please help i dont know what this chick is doing and what do i do...???

That was a tough read, OP.

Try paragraphs, and punctuation!

On your issue: You dumped your girlfriend because this girl suggested that maybe you should... and now she's not biting your bait anymore?

That's kind of funny, if not sad.

You're no challenge to her at all! She literally got you to end a relationship because she told you so. That's why she's not interested anymore!

I guess you really messed this one up, she literally played you like a fool.

The only thing now is to move on and learn from your mistakes.

I really didn't end it just because she told me to she was asking me questions about us and I told her the truth I didn't really feel anything for my girlfriend anymore plus I didn't really end it I told my girlfriend (ex) that I got things going on and I need a break she got upset and stuff and she said you still mine though Blah blah blah then she agreed on the break thingy I can still get her back if I want to

I think you're the CEO of nice guys, holy crap!

That was painful to read

Getting stuck like super glue to ONE girl, she just uses you to complain to her bf or other guys who excite her.

Yeah I really liked this girl before and I still do when I saw her again my feelings like came back and I know now the best way is to move on from her and im doing my best

Friendzoning her while keeping your current gf would've sounded lke a better solution. Dnt know about anyone else on this or reading this , but, teasin' n challenging sparking tht intense attraction while figuring out if she truly meets YOUR standatds while also keeping your gf isa better way to handle a situation lke this. Shows you have options n the power. You ended the relationship communicated to her you'd play on her terms inside of your own.

Yeah that would have been better but I still have my girlfriend like we only on a break I can get back with my girlfriend easily if I wanted to the other girl just thinks we fully broken up

sounds like the girl ran a girlfriend destroyer on you