I want an open relationship, the girl i'm with wants a closed one, but agree's to have an open one.

She feels like she's not good enough since i want an open relation ship. What are some things i can say that will help her feel better and understand?

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Dont say anything, show her.

When you do spend time with her make it great. Great sex, great cuddling, great adventures.

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pretty much exactly what I was going to say, i've been successful with turning chicks into fuckbuddys by moderating my initial contact and employing this exact technique. If she can come to think of you as a discrete, trustworthy, sex partner who is a great fuck and always a positive upbeat person in here life you could have what you want. It is the initial buy in which is tough, but don't talk about it just demonstrate this behavior pattern.

Some good advice already.

The best advice I have is to not try to logic her into it. Don't talk about how she'll love it because she can have other guys. And don't tell her that you want to be open now but maybe down the road yall can get together. If she asks if there's a chance that yall will be exclusive later, I find that answers like "I'm not in to that right now, if that changes I'll let you know." are much better because you're not really hanging her on a string.

She likes you and she will stick around for the open relationship for a while. She won't stay for too long.
If she wants a closed relationship she won't like the idea you sleeping with other women. She might bottle it up for a while but then she will get jealous and you will argue with her a lot.
You see.. from what you say it seems like she really likes you and she would even wait for you to change your mind.
If you are sure that you want an open relationship and this is what you want, you should find someone that is alright with the idea. Less drama.

easy answer just have your end open! best policy then you ain't "stirring the cold porridge"

Logical answers to emotional problems never work. Do what the others suggest, appeal to her emotional side using as few words as possible to make it seem "indescribable".

I actually just jotted down the traits one would exude to be a "highly attractive" man. Discreet, Positive, Fun, Trustworthy, Confident, Charismatic.

If you're firing on these cylinders you should have no trouble setting the stage for any relationship you'd like. (I'm saying this as a student not a master)