An intresting report today.

Every Sunday I go out and play pool and drink with my friends at a bar. This last Sunday they brought their girlfriends. I already knew them but not too well so I thought hell I will just talk to them and get experiance taking to girls there is no risk or reward here but I can gage their response. First guy got there with his girlfriend. My friend went to get a drink so I talked to his GF while he was gone.

She normaly is not that intrested in what I have to say she is big into literature and when I talk to her about it before she would give me statement answers and not much else. But this time I had not been thinking about the girl but rather the literature snob. I started out "people always talk about how we are suppose to be well read. What do I have to read for you guys to consider me well read!?" She laughed and talked about it for a while all the while I honestly forgot who she was. Forgot she was the girl who shut me down with one liners all the time. As the conversation grew on she really opened up to me. Next thing I know her boyfriend buts in on our conversation interups everything then says "Hey rack the balls let's play pool!" and gave me a dirty look. Then as I was racking the balls I thought "wait what just happened?" This girl who barely ever talked to me opened up to me and my friend seemed not happy with me." Then I went back to my old ways and she ignored me.

My second friend arrived with his gf who didn't talk to me hardly at all. She was talking about basketball and was a fan of a team known for having nasty fans. Even though I knew she wasn't and was a nice attractive girl I talked to her as one of those nasty fans. Not a girl or a nice person. I would say "tell me for you fans is their life after Basketball?" Next thing I knew she was opening up to me and laughing and talking with me. Her bf normaly much more laid bak and quite oblivious to the situation didn't care and we off an on joked all night. Durring the final conversation I notice all the sudden the first girl was fixed on me while I was talking to the second and I thought WTF she hardly ever looks at me.

Then to top it all off the first friend left an hour and a half earlier then usual and as I was telling them good bye my friend stayed inbetween me an his gf the whole time. However as I was telling my friend bye she ( a girl who always avoided physical contact with me) reached over his shoulder and kind of gave me a hi five but kinda squeezed my hand with our fingers interlocking at the same time.

The lesson or technique we can all take from this is to conquer your fear and normal nervousness and bad habits around wemon don't think of her as a woman think of her as a simple collection of her desires and speak to those desires not a woman and don't put the nice act on the girl.

In that night with that mindset a girl who barely talked to me and never touched me opened up to me left with a jealous boyfriend and squeezed my had as she left.