| Non-verbal dance game
Field Report
I went to a house party last night
It was mostly black people
I got twerked on by one of the hottest light skinned girls in the party, so despite my soberness and not getting laid, I did feel good about having a hot girl twerk as opposed to say settling for less.
I approached a 8/10 light skin and said "Hey, are you waiting on your boyfriend?" Because she was not dancing. She nodded yes. Be it a lie or truth, I did not continue, and left her alone, after that question was a yes.
Why did I ask her? I thought that instead of asking her a boring old "Whats your name?" I could have said "Hey, you must be waiting on Steve, you met him online" and turn it into a joke etc.. But instead, given the context of the party, I did not want to come off as a soft guy, so I opted for a failing "Are you waiting on your boyfriend?" assumption. It failed miserably and she did not seem interested. I did have fun dancing, not caring about anyones opinion.
Part two of last night
It was me, my two bros, and two girls. One girl was for my bro. The white girl sat next to me in the back. We did not talk because I was busy rolling up. And I was kind of nervous. I put my hand on her leg, she did not do anything. During the party, she did not really twerk or dance, she doesnt seem like the type. She did go home with my black bro last night, and I let them be and did not CB since she was clearly not interested in me after I tried to touch her in the car on the way back. I feel like I didn't build attraction or rapport with her.
Why did I fail? Well, I tried to "get in my zone" but I was sleepy, and tired. It was 2am and I had stayed up all day and by the time we got to the party, I was shot. Secondly, you could say, I am a newbie to PUA, and learning.
Question: What type of approaches would you have done to A) Communicate with the light skin girl standing by the wall just waiting to be talked to B) The white girl who rides with you to and from the party and lives in the same dorm building
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