Since the semester started right now at university I've got significantly less time for sarging. So it would be very very nice if I could practice some day game. There are always soo many hot girls on my way to the university and back, but I haven't approached a single one of them yet. I wanted to try the "do I look gay" opener, but I couldn't bring up the courage to do so.

This is kind of a list of my excuses I tell myself:

I'm to tired.
I don't really want to open her anyway. (It's an excuse, I'm just afraid of doing so)
She isn't thaat hot...
It isn't the right moment right now, I better wait and see

Is it possible to sarge when you are going home from work...? When you are tired? Okay, you should have fun doing it. I would have fun if I could take a hot chick home and f*ck her...

I'm not afraid of asking a HB what time is it, so don't suggest this as a solution.

this is a good question i hope it gets some responses.. i find myself in the same position...lol funny enough i ussually give myself the exact same excuses

yeah, same thing with me. I used to Day Sarge all the time (4 times a week), but i havn't sarged for 2 weeks.

I'm getting mad at myself. There are two ways aroudn it it seems.
1) Just get the F**k out there and do it
2) get a friend to go with you / or / gou out with buddies and just happen to sarge when you're out


it's tough to get the motivation, I hear ya man

Sounds like someone needs to work on his confidence more than his day game. You have to be in the right mindset for this to work, otherwise, you'll fall flat on your face.

Also, I would never suggest asking a girl what time it was. Ever. Unless your watch is broken and you're worried you'll be late for that Western Civilization test (which you'll inevitably not pass).
But maybe you might try the "Help me, I'm lost and don't know where I am" opener, or even (if you're feeling REALLY adventurous), the "Can you please explain the difference between fruits and vegetables" one.

Okay, so I just made those up. But be quirky and fun, and it'll pay off.

If you're lacking confidence during the day, just go around smiling a saying hi to people. People do remember that weird yet friendly guy that says hi to them on their way to class. As an added bonus, if you present yourself as outgoing to a cute girl one day, she will be likely to chat with you on another day. Just try it and let me know.

Yeah my confidence with women sux really hard. Probably the reason is rejection in the past. I had 5 k-closes now and I've made out with 2 girls using my PUA knowledge but it seems like this hasn't effected my confidence at all.

I like your fruit opener, I'll try to force myself to use it.

Approach Anxiety is just such a crap. I mean wuaaaaargh it's so not logic that I just can't approach them... It's not logic that there is a whooole section on the boards discussing this. Why can't I just go to them and open them. Argh. I know Mystery's explanation and so on, I just want to share my feelings with you...

Stupid excuses!

Okay, here's the deal:
I swear to myself, here and now, that tomorrow, I'm going to approach a girl with the vegetables opener (cause I like it) in day game. You can lynch me if I won't open one, you just have to come to Switzerland.

Think of yourself as someone else and go for it. Oh and I totally already have my plane ticket to Switzerland if you fail.

i have the same problem, i usually just walk around campus just checking out the girls, but never talking to any of them.... using those EXACT same excuses... but i dunno, like i feel as though i could do it, but i never actually bother doing it. But you inspired me, tomorrow, i'll open to a the first girl who makes eye contact with me. not first, ANY girl, if they look at me, i am smiling and saying hi..... i'll let you know how it works out
best of luck buddy

Wow can you sarge at night? Honestly? Buildup the courage? This doesn't sound like something a PUA would be saying. Think about it. What's the major difference between night game...and day game? The time of day. Nothing else. If you can sarge at night you can sarge during the day I use almost all the same openers and routines during the day in the mall or at the cafe that I would use at night in a club and it all works the same. Do you think that women respond to this sort of thing because they have been drinking? No absolutely not. They respond to this sort of thing because all of these techniques have been designed to attract women. The time of day is irrelevent. If the things you do at night work. Then they will work during the day. Period. If anything you need to read up on AA as much as possible otherwise it doesn't sound as though you should have any problems. Oh yeah and try some of the AA destroying techniques you can find all over this forum such as making eye contact and saying hello to every single person that walks by you OR one of my personal favorites I have read on this site. Go out and buy yourself a plain white t-shirt take a sharpie and write in big letters. "Free Hugs" and walk around letting the good times roll it's a great way to approach. Basically just suck it up and approach the damn women man the WORST thing that will happen is they blow you off. Then what? Go out and approach another. There are 6.45 BILLION people on the planet so you have alot of chances.

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