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she is going to be attracted to other guys and you cant really help that.
deal with it. my exgirlfriend use to flirt with guys all the time but at the end of the night she went home with me. she use to get guys to buy her drinks and then come back to me lol
learn to not get as jealous. a little is fine... just dont get too jealous or it will ruin things real quick
This is certainly the right mindset, and andy220000 is correct IMO...
The challenge will be actually convincing yourself not to get jealous, since that's a tough emotion to tame, particularly if you're really new to this.
When it's happening just amuse yourself with something else... or better yet, chat up another girl and flip the script on her. She's not doing anything wrong and neither are you.
Bottom line is if she's your girlfriend you should trust her. Do you trust her?
If the answer is yes, let her do her thing... cause she'll come back to you.
Bingo. You either trust this girl or not. You could even lay ground rules in a kind of way.
She can flirt mildly, get him to buy a drink, touch his arm and he can touch hers if she wants, no kissing and I don't want some dude feeling my girl up.
And when she takes you up on it, go flirt with other girls. You'd be amazed at how flirtatious girls will be back at you when you are coming from a "I don't care" attitude.