So there's a new girl that just started working where I work...there's two girls currently, that i have not fucked...and don't really want to...These two girls come on to me all the time....well anyway, I have started talking to the new girl, casually..not hitting on her hardcore because well...I have other girls right now that I am attending to outside of the workplace.


Well today, I think the other two go threatened....they started telling the new girl that I like to hit on every girl there or any girl that walks from that matter..I walked away before i heard this shit...from a buddy of mine. He's a good guy, told me that they were throwing me under the bus and him and another girl stuck up for me. Anyway, I didn't give a shit, I was like whatever...kept talking to the new girl, just conversed, got to know her. Real nice girl, might enjoy corrupting this one

Should I just keep playing this jealousy plot line? The other two keep throwing themselves at me...I just keep them at arms length...not worth the trouble...I just don't know if this will backfire. My goal is to keep my life drama free...seems like these two girls are intent on looking for ways to keep that from happening.

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Messing around with a girl from work disqualifies this statement.

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Lol....maybe it does....hey I haven't touched any of these chicks...I guess now that I think about it...but dammit this one girl is so hot...

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I second this ! your going to shit where you eat and cause way more drama than you can expect. Trust me its happened to me and i hadnt even fucked the girl yet.

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I don't know how good your job is but if you enjoy it and are paid well and it would be difficult to find another job then I of course highly recommend not going for it.

I'm a civil engineer and I'm currently with an employer where I love the hours, love the job and really don't want to mess it up even though I could find another job fairly easy, but because of that I go out of my way at times to be distant from the secretary here. She flirts with alot of the guys, hits us up on facebook, asks about girls we are dating etc. She's attractive but not super hot. She just loves the attention and because of that I don't give her any besides just being cordial.

Alright, I'll just do me. Won't fuck em...Thanks guys.

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If the new girl asks you about the other girls and what they're saying to drag your rep through the mud you could always say they're just doing it because they're jealous, they think you're showing interest in her when you don't show any their way then tell her she's got nothing to worry about, you're harmless (throw in a cheeky wink) That will shut them down, increase your stock price and get her wondering why you're not hitting on her.

But hey you said you wouldn't do anything....but we've all said that before haha

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The new girls a gem. She is a little more quiet...maybe for now...keeps to herself... Then again it is the first week...it is the other 2 girls that have been trying to throw me under the bus. One of them throws herself at me and these two chicks even suggested moving in with me? WTF...yeah, they are nothing but drama. I did tell one of them I'd fuck them once but that's it. I have been a gentleman to the new girl, but I have been myself which involves smirking. I try to get along well with everyone. It is my place of work, I try to make sure it's somewhere I would not dread to go to when I do.


But lately they have been going extra hard. I have been allying myself with my the other guys I work with. They see it, they try to help me out but I eat up all the "shit tests" that are being thrown at me lately. I go on as usual.


In front of the new girl and some of my colleagues ( I work as server at night...substitute teacher by day)

Jealous girl 1:
"so am I your bae today"

me: "hmm what day is it"

Then she comes at me again
Jealous girl 1
"So is Avi your bae too"

Me: "I only work 4 days...so only 4 slots..."

left it at that.

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Sounds like a pretty sweet environment man I can understand why you wouldn't want it ruined.

Social proof would be through the roof as well, I find that to be incredibly useful in my workplace especially as I work on a floor with heaps of different teams so I can hook up with girls from another team without causing conflict

I feel you're making them want you more which while good could be dangerous, do you think you'll have a breaking point where you can only resist so much?

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Yeah, I'm starting to see the danger of it all so...eh, I think I can manage some self control.if I cant, well I will post in this thread again . I do have girls outside of the workplace...so I take out whatever it is out on them . In a good way go course.

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Any publicity is good publicity in the world of attraction man. The fact of the matter is; they're talking about you, which means you have presence and you're worth talking about. Its makes whoever is listening curious; you almost become notorious. And that will work in your favor.

Its not like the guys that get a bad wrap for being "players" are no longer getting laid. They're still getting laid, and usually with the women that were bad mouthing them or listening to the bad mouthing.

Girls talk about everything.. Let them do what girls do. The light that shines from you is what will determine who comes into and out of your life.

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Ah, that's a good way to view the situation. Thanks this helps a lot!

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Ha!! Girls aren't the only ones that'll soak up attention from people they're not interested in