Ok so guys, its a bit of a long story, but I feel I need some help in this situation.
Ok well I left my home country and now live in Toronto, the group I socialize with is 99% people from my home country, so anyways met a girl who was in the group on Halloween and got her number after some cheeky flirting.
The next week group met up again and maybe 30mins in club, I was talking to her and she looked at me and stopped talking so I just went for the kiss and she dragged me out of the club and back to hers
Anyways we went on a date and I visited her a few times over next few weeks thought everything was going swimmingly. Then couple of weeks before Christmas, I asked her where she saw us(rookie mistake I know) and she said dating, which is what I thought aswell, anyways stayed night again and next morning after us hanging and having a good time in morning she dropped bombshell that she didnt want to go out with me, her reasoning was that she didnt trust me(this comes because when we go out girls flirt with me, dont know how this is my fault) and after her last boyfriend dumped her on NY eve and one before that said he didnt want to be seen with her.
So come christmas day, the group had a big dinner and she kept throwing remarks at me for no reason, turns out it was cause I told her best friend that she wasnt my type (the best friend that is) and I had hooked up with girls on a night out the previous week.
So NY comes along and count down comes along and Im with serious little hottie when out of the corner of my eye I see the girl and she looks so sad so fuck it, I left the girl I was with and gave her the NY kiss, fuck i I thought, I still like her, so why not, anyways was talking to her three hours later and she said something to which I asked her if she thought she was better than me, she said yes and I stormed out of the party(Yes I know, but I was real drunk)
Soo anyways we had arranged to go to hockey game(I thought free tickets) so went with her still, she wouldnt talk to me whole game, after which I told her, if she didnt want me to go, she could have told me, she said she thought she did really well for how angry she was at me, to which I said what the fuck have you to be angry about, i never said i was better than you, we had a little argument, after which we decided to just remain civil as we are both part of same group of friends, fine with me Im always civil.
Fast forward one week, was out with the boys and having a awesome night one to many shots, when she turned up at club (her best friend trying to score my bf) and well ended up bring her back to mine, to which she told me she was really into me( we were a little drunk) fine walked her home next day proper kiss at her place, then few texts during week grand I thought were friends again yay.
Wrong went to a house party, and she totally ignored me all night, would barely anwser my questions, I was told by the main girl in our group that it wouldnt be a nice thing to bring a girl I was texting to party on accounts off hooking up with other girl, fine I thought thats understandable. I however didnt know I wasnt let flirt with other girls in party turns out I wasnt, guys kept coming up and stopping it.
Then in club was dancing with this girl like a total babe, she kept coming up kissing me, then one of the guys came over and shouted no hes with Girl, its not happening laughing but still pulled me away, like it was funny at the time, but annoyed me later.
Now the thing is, I think the girl is into me, but for some fucked up reason doesnt want to and the not talking to me thing, I think is a stupid mind game to get me to chase her, I cant see any other reason why I cant talk to girls when Im with the group, like I wouldnt intentionally hurt her as I really like her, I just would like to know whats going on.
Thanks to all who stuck reading
CHAT