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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 8:15 pm 
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Hi Guys i'm Harel, 24, i'm pretty new here and to PUA, I read a lot about it, across the years but never really try to the principles in reality...
talking to some girls at the same time and here is summary of what's going on:
Conversation 1 (30 years old girl)
Me: "Hi you are alive?"
Her: "Yes"
Me (After 2 weeks): "Still there?"
Her: "Yes Darling"
Me: "Cool, I saw you are teaching Yoga, and I like it, which kinds?"
Her: "I'm used to teach, but now i'm less, are you practicing?"
Me: "No, But I can get private lessons from you"

She saw the message and not responded for a while, any advice?

Conversation 2 (23 years old girl)
Me: "Your breast is real? you killed me..."
Her: "So, die quietly..."
I wrote her non-sense about something she wrote in her profile and what is the name of her dog?
Her: "Did not understand I do not want to talk to you?"
Me: "I stuck on your breast again, it's not for making relationship I just stuck there"

Same Issue As conversation 1, not responding

Conversation 3 (32 years old)
She had no details in her profile so I wrote
Me: "when I see a girl with no details I assume she her for the sex...is it the case?"

She did to me like, and we matched.
But still not answering for couple days.

So I'm sure I have a LOT to improve so tell me...


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 8:40 pm 
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First convo you are coming off as a try hard trying to talk to her about shit you clearly aren't interested in. That is why she asked your specific interest which you confirmed didn't exist - game over.

Second convo you went straight to physical/sexual frame, girls wont respond to that unless you have a shitload more of credibility/looks then they do, at least initially.

Anyway no use in going through all your failed threads. Get some basic online game and read some basic online game material free on the web and youtube. You are wasting your time with this crap technique and you are going to end up like 80% of guys online who never have success and quit.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 9:02 pm 
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Hey...First thanks for the responses, I love your analyze.
I would like you to tell me what you will write her instead of my comment she stopped answering, and if you can answer to me about conv 3, learning from my mistakes it's the best learn to me.

Anyway I would be happy if you able to provide to me links and specific articles, because from quick view I didn't see a organized articles and information in the subject.

Thank you anyway!


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 9:18 pm 
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I agree with detox almost entirely.

When she said she doesn't want to talk to you that's a pretty clear indicator you screwed up somewhere along the line or that she's simply not interested.

Your messages are not interesting - that's the problem.

They're very forward and forced - like - to me - they scream "I'm only sending these messages and having this conversation so that I can have sex with you"

In terms of what you should do -

Be funny, ask about her life and be interested, be flirty (but not as overly sexual as you were here). We can't tell you exactly - word for word - what to write... Experiment with your own personal style... You'll lose some but you'll learn what works and what doesn't.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 11:36 pm 
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convo #3 who knows. I have girls that match with me all the time I say clever shit to and never hear back. You have no control of logistics in these cases and you have to understand, especially on tinder, they are be bombarded with too much email/texts to give you much attention. The trick is to have good game and then go through enough good emails that you get dialog going with a reasonable percentage of them. Your biggest issue right now is you have absolutely no online game.

As I said there are a ton of threads here on online game, a shitload of youtube videos, and a lot of stuff on the net. If you use Google and spend some time research you have enough decent material to keep you busy for days.

After you do all this and try again please repost


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