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PostPosted: Mon Jan 12, 2015 6:44 pm 
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Hello guys, thanks in advance for your answers. Love the forum and sorry for my english and the size of this thread.

Some years ago I meet this girl, she is my friend's sister, she is like a 6 and she gave me IOIs.
I was a really AFC by then so I screwed up everything.
She rejected me and I just decided to move on. Then I found out she regretted and felt bad,
she even was waiting for me at train station to talk to me (we go to uni by train) but I was very upset and rejected her so bad. Few months later I found out that she sees someone/dates someone but here's where CRAZY things start:
-I usually talk to his brother via SPAM. One day I was chatting with him and it just got weird because of the answers I was receiving. Then I found out that I was actually chatting with this girl, her sister, not him and I didn't even know it.
-She often used HIS cellphone to send me messagges, sometimes I didn't even know it was her. One night she sent me a pic of a
very sexy dress of hers, but I just didn't give a fuck.
-One night I was talking with his brother about a girl, she read the conversation, then took his cellphone and asked me
(saying it was her on the phone) why I didn't liked this girl, I just tried to change topic and she asked me again (same thing like 4 times)

These weird situations happened like 5 times in a month during summer holidays, but almost always, at the end of every
message, she told me she got a boyfriend. So I just acted like I don't give a fuck and tried to move on.

Facts:
-I DHV a lot of times, she knows that there are girls who flirt with me and some of them were rejected by me.
-I usually am very confident, when I talked to her I rarely went AFC.
-She went trought a lot of problems with his boyfriend. She posted very sad status on fb. I think she was just not very into him.
-Recently his boyfriend dumped her and got another girl. He even has a profile pic of him with her new gf.

Uni started again and then I found out that she was mad at me, when I meet her at train station she acted like I wans't there.
I talked to my friend (his brother) and he confirmed that she was mad at me but she didn't tell him why.

Then one day I decided to ask my friend for her number. I got her number and called her on 19th december to ask her why she was acting like that.
She didn't answer the phone, then she replied very mad at me via SMS and told me to stop talking to her and that she had a boyfriend,
she rejected me so bad. I decided to move on again.

I received a christmas SMS messagge on 25th december, it was her. I just thanked her.
I got a happy new year message on january 1st.
Then I reply via SPAM thanking her and wishing her a happy new year too. She told me she wasn't mad at me and she even apologized.
My friend (his brother) told me that she now regrets how she treated me etc.
The next day she initiated conversation via SPAM and, using a stupid excuse, told me that she is single. I didn't say anything about it.
Some days later I tried to initiate a conversation, but it was a little akward. She replied with "yes", "no", "ok". But then she changed topic
and wrote very big messagges explaining why she dumped her boyfriend, saying that there are men who make her compliments because
of her sexiness, ass, the way she acts, etc. She qualified herself to me without asking.
She also told me that there was another boy that she now finds interesting and soon she'll ask him out.
I asked her who was him, she replied saying she prefers not to tell me his name, she doesn't talk about his private life and quickly closed the conversation saying she got to go.

Then we talked again after 2 days (yesterday), she was very playful, she tried to shit tested me but I just acted very alpha. I was very cocky & funny and then ended conversation.

Later that same night she replied apologizing because of her arrogant behaviour (shit tests).
Then she told me this:
"My ex boyfriend asked me to get back together and I just say yes, I couldn't resist his beautiful green eyes!"

I'm 100% sure that it's bullshit, she doesn't know that some time ago I found his boyfriend on facebook (he now got another girlfriend) and then I ask her if it was him:
"I found your boyfriend on fb, his name is xxx right?"
She replied: "no, he has not facebook"
Me: "well I noticed you liked some of his pics, I thought it was him"
her: "no, that's another xxx" (Bullshit)
Me:"Anyway I met a girl the other day" (She asked me earlier that she hopes I found a girl etc etc
her: "I'm happy for you, got to go now".

The fact is that she was lying all the time to me, I'm pretty sure.
I never asked her about who she was seeing or about his ex, she was the one who talked about it. She even told me that 4 guys asked her out in a week.
Is she playing hard to get, trying to make me jealous or she just don't care about me?


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 12, 2015 8:20 pm 
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So? You've wasted nearly a year on her without the pussy she dangles in front of your face like a carrot on a stick?

How many girls have you fucked in the meantime?

Next time clearly point out that she should fuck you.

If she plays the BF card - reply 'Don't bring him!'

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 1:27 am 
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So? You've wasted nearly a year on her without the pussy she dangles in front of your face like a carrot on a stick?

How many girls have you fucked in the meantime?

Next time clearly point out that she should fuck you.

If she plays the BF card - reply 'Don't bring him!'

She have just blocked me on SPAM saying his new bf desn't like that other guys send her messages! ahahahWhat to do now?


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So? You've wasted nearly a year on her without the pussy she dangles in front of your face like a carrot on a stick?

How many girls have you fucked in the meantime?

Next time clearly point out that she should fuck you.

If she plays the BF card - reply 'Don't bring him!'

She have just blocked me on SPAM saying his new bf desn't like that other guys send her messages! ahahahWhat to do now?
Forget her and go meet other girls.

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mate unfortunately you've got some serious one-itis going on. Most of us have been there I have myself.

Seems she almost enjoys the drama so as the other guys have said you need to try and forget her and go for other girls. Freeze her out, and one day in the future when things may be a bit more stable you never know there might be a window! It happened for me.

best of luck!

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 9:31 am 
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Thenks for your advice but I was thinking about sending her a message telling her that we should meet at train station one of these days before going to uni. I know she is completely different when we're face to face.


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She has just replied saying "no thanks, I'm not interested. Stop sending me messages!"
I'm angry because she lied all the time to me. I'd like to debunk all her lies and BS with a message.
What do you think? Should I do it or should I just move on?


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She has just replied saying "no thanks, I'm not interested. Stop sending me messages!"
I'm angry because she lied all the time to me. I'd like to debunk all her lies and BS with a message.
What do you think? Should I do it or should I just move on?
Move on. Seriously. Get over it and meet other girls.


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So? You've wasted nearly a year on her without the pussy she dangles in front of your face like a carrot on a stick?

How many girls have you fucked in the meantime?

Next time clearly point out that she should fuck you.

If she plays the BF card - reply 'Don't bring him!'

This would have been the way to go but if you're blocked then you're now fucked and out of the picture (at least till she breaks up with the fella she's with...

Move on man.

You're only hurting yourself by spending more time thinking about her.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 13, 2015 3:56 pm 
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So? You've wasted nearly a year on her without the pussy she dangles in front of your face like a carrot on a stick?

How many girls have you fucked in the meantime?

Next time clearly point out that she should fuck you.

If she plays the BF card - reply 'Don't bring him!'

This would have been the way to go but if you're blocked then you're now fucked and out of the picture (at least till she breaks up with the fella she's with...

Move on man.

You're only hurting yourself by spending more time thinking about her.

The funny fact is that I'm pretty sure she is single. This dude (her "boyfriend") has just got another girl recently. I know they broke up a lot of time ago. So she has just been lying to me.


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So? You've wasted nearly a year on her without the pussy she dangles in front of your face like a carrot on a stick?

How many girls have you fucked in the meantime?

Next time clearly point out that she should fuck you.

If she plays the BF card - reply 'Don't bring him!'

This would have been the way to go but if you're blocked then you're now fucked and out of the picture (at least till she breaks up with the fella she's with...

Move on man.

You're only hurting yourself by spending more time thinking about her.

The funny fact is that I'm pretty sure she is single. This dude (her "boyfriend") has just got another girl recently. I know they broke up a lot of time ago. So she has just been lying to me.
Drop her...out of sight out mind...find someone else

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The funny fact is that I'm pretty sure she is single. This dude (her "boyfriend") has just got another girl recently. I know they broke up a lot of time ago. So she has just been lying to me.
Drop her...out of sight out mind...find someone else

Just one more question: how should I behave or what should I tell her if she reinitiates contact again?


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The funny fact is that I'm pretty sure she is single. This dude (her "boyfriend") has just got another girl recently. I know they broke up a lot of time ago. So she has just been lying to me.
Drop her...out of sight out mind...find someone else

Just one more question: how should I behave or what should I tell her if she reinitiates contact again?

You have to get your shit together. Act attractive? I'm not sure what you mean behave. Someone pointed out may have oneitis in the answers above...I'm starting to believe you might actually have it. Don't worry about her reiniating right now. Worry about yourself and finding a way to get your mind off of it. Once you revisit this whole situation with a clear mind, I'm hoping you can realize some things for yourself. I can tell you that this girl sound like bad news from what you told me but I don't think you will fully grasp it at this in time. Understand?

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Just one more question: how should I behave or what should I tell her if she reinitiates contact again?
Like your going to fuck her, then do that.

Go find other girls and quit stalking this one.

DON'T' BE A CREEPER!

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Thanks a lot guys!


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