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There are some curvy thick girls I find attractive. I can't get past the fact that if I'm out with them, I feel embarrassed because I'm with them and I should be with someone who is in good shape. My friends always have good looking girls. I've been caught making out w some ugly chicks and they remember that. I know I won't get their full support if I was dating someone who is thick curvy. Just for your information I'm a average skinny guy. What's everyone's opinion?
Whose life are you living? Yours or your friends?
Are you in incredible shape, to be so judgmental of others?
I'm not saying you should date fat girls out of charity. What I'm saying is that you are falling into the trap most people fall in; you live through others perceptions.
That's a dangerous game to play because it leaves you trapped - you are essentially a slave. Your sense of self is directed by the opinions others hold of you. You are not your own man.
If you find a woman attractive, that is between you and her. Constantly worrying about the results of what you do, the opinions of others, global warming and whatever else your mind can come up with is a giant waste of energy.
Mack
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