Ive met this girl. I opened her talking about a funny incident of her. She was very receptive.

First days I had like, this strong magnetic eye contact with her while talking. I also tried to escalate first by taking her hands and arms and giving her massages (excuse was "this Is how i warm for guitar practice" which is true btw). I also touched her hair and I got her number.

Thing is, I asked her like 2 times and I have to admit it was a bad move. 1st time I asked her out and she was busy with the xmas shopping, next time she had to spend time with her family, and last time she was busy getting her stuff ready for new years trip.

So after that I havent seen her since like dec 31st. I dont know if this is a good or bad thing, or If should I stay or should I go. I also discovered that she MIGHT have a bf, but she hasnt told me anything about it.

Im gaming 2 other girls SPAM, but this one def is the one that interest me the most. Im already getting laid with one of the other girls but its just some thing to pass the time.

Im probably going to meet this other girl, because Im gonna go back to my old work out schedule.

Do you guys think I should go next? or do something else?

Do you think that girl is interested? When she told you that she cannot meet up, did she seem eager to meet you at some other point, maybe after NYE? Did she maybe propose any alternative days? Anything?

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First time yeah she said "If Im not home by the time you call her its because im doing xmas shopping but if that happens ill see you tomorrow" (i guess she meant at the gym)

the other 2 attempts were failures but i did both on xmas and new years eve (she was preparing her trip so she was busy)

But the kino was good from start to the last time. Thats what make me wonder if I should really go next.

It doesn't sound like a lost cause at all to me. No point in binning a potentially interested girl at all, if you ask me. Now that all the new years stress has passed (unless she is a student and in the middle of her exams) you should ask her out sometime. If she flakes again, I would let it be (unless she proposes another day herself).

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I think the same. But should I wait a bit before inviting her again? Like should I build more rapport or something like that? Or ignore her?

I personally would not play hard to get nor let any more time pass, since it's just going to make the whole thing cool off too much, and it sounds less like you being too pushy and more like a series of unfortunate days (Xmas and so on).

I personally find it rather distant to build rapport from a distance, so I would tend to try and establish a meeting ASAP. Might just be me though; I would like to have some other opinions on the matter as well.

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