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So many women and men get into relationships with the mentality that " I can change this person". I'm sure this happens daily. Women and men alike are often trying to mold each other into their ideal partners. But the truth is; through autosuggestion and repetition she can begin to train your subconscious to think about her. It may or may not be something that she is doing consciously; but she is trying to mold you.
I had this girl that would grab my arm tightly and say " Listen to me". And then I had learn that when firm touch is applied to the body it distracts the mind so that auto suggestions sink deeper into the subconscious. I had chicks that I would work around say to me every day " You love me. I know you love me. You love me" . And I even had a chick that I would of never dreamed of fucking get me to fall for her by applying a similar process. It was short lived, but 80% of what we feel through the day is a result of the subconscious. So if a chick knows what she is doing she can almost hypnotize you temporarily. I've had it happen even in my most player of player days.
Now I personally just don't go for it. I stop those manipulation tactics as soon as they began, because you never know. Like you I would always laugh it off, but with enough repetition it will still be sinking into your mind. The less you like the girl that harder it will be, but its still potentially very possible. And the most clever women do it without you or even them even knowing it. Because you aren't all that attracted to this girl you're able to pick up on it easily. But lets say you were more attracted... thats more distraction; you don't even want to believe she is trying to manipulate you. She's too "beautiful" for that.. Yeah right..You don't like this girl because she lacks social intelligence; she makes it too obvious. I'm sure the last girl was a lot less obvious about it.
Theres only but so many bullets a bullet proof vest can take before one gets through. I'd say train yourself to check women when they go there. That way you're more aware during the future.
It has to be the nurturing aspect that is in a woman. Has to be...never fails for the woman to try to nurture or help. I love that side but....yeah you know. My ex girlfriend has been a little more helpful lately, remember her Eddie? She offered to give me a tv for my room, it's not a flat screen, but she went out of her way. Even suggested we get food together WITH her sister of course...I wouldn't do that one on one thing with her. Didn't think much of it, just thanked her. She was a little smarter. More aloof, not as routine as these other girls. I played the routine on her...maybe she did a little on me who knows...don't want to focus on that now....
Anyway back to topic, I have to be honest, the girl (that has been giving me hickeys) that I mentioned earlier who has been doing it said flat out during the routine that all she had to do was get emotional and I open up. Of course I was turned off because in her routine she was asking me loaded questions such as "do you care about me", "should I not like you" and all this shit, because you're right Eddie, if you let the routine go it's course it can get to you. I was glad she did that though, really popped me back into place. She thinks she's smart...backfired on her ass. Back of the line for that one.
I have to be honest again, the second girl who I was explaining the hickey too, we get along well. I like her a little more, I am attracted a little more...I have been more...lax if I were to put it, I see the routine...but the damn attraction is letting it play out a little, I should probably slow that down too. I am just worried about the future, when that hot 10, the most gorgeous girl plays the game. I have been running into hot chicks lately, I have been keeping up and keeping my composure but I have been checking myself lately and I must say I get a little intimidated but it's not something that will severely hinder my game. Just have to check myself and keep training myself to keep women in check.. The jitters I call them...but I will worry about that another time.
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