I met a girl through an online dating site and things have been going great so far. We have a lot in common and are texting pretty frequently right now...She initiates texts most of the time too which is a nice IOI.

However, the frequency of us texting is making me worried that our attraction is just going to die out soon. She just graduated college and is back at home for 3 weeks before she comes back to start work. She stated this after we started talking, otherwise I would've already met up with her by now.

How would you handle this situation? I know texting should be used as a tool to only schedule dates, but that isn't the case right now. Should I stick to a couple times a week until she gets back or keep on going strong since we have been going steady for awhile now?

Do what feels right, but never out of desperation. I'd give her some time for herself, and in the meanwhile you enjoy yourself. If she texts, text something nice back. Perhaps wait a bit sometimes.

You can judge the situation better than we do, how do you think she thinks about the two of you, and all of this?

Just don't go full-stalk on her. She has a time away, so let her have it. Just like you probably want to have some time for yourself once in a while.

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I think it's perfectly fine to ease up on the texting...mainly to see what she is up to, how she's doing, a little banter here and there. Always leave her wanting more. None of that over texting shit. I have had great conversations through text but I usually end them when I feel like it's time to leave it at a high point and go do something else important. If you like this girl, it will work out. We have a funny way of achieving our goals once we set our minds to them. If you really want to meet this girl you will. Just relax and enjoy the ride. Text other girls...go do something else.

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I agree man you can ease up but obviously not completely. Keep the connection there I was in a similar situation just last month established a really good connection but we didn't meet up for weeks, we hooked up and haven't seen her for a couple weeks since but it's still there. Once you establish that connection you don't need to text her to your thumbs are raw, just don't become a stranger. Like Mr. Assertive said banter is golden, keep her smiling and keep her digging your vibe.

Mixing up the timing and regularity of your texts works well as well and keeps it fresh.

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The only thing thats going to kill attraction is the fact that you're worrying about the attraction being killed. A woman is going to respond to your level of confidence. If you can't maintain conversation for three weeks with high level attraction then you should see that as " I guess I have to improve my game. I'll do my best with this and take it as learning experience for the next time if anything".

It really just comes down to your emotional state. You don't have to follow any of these rules that guys will try and throw at you. You have to respond to your own internal skill level. If you're ready for this you'll know it; if you're not, you try it anyway and learn from it.

But all in all, as long as you aren't afraid to lose the girl she won't be going anywhere anytime soon. So I would personally suggest you stop posting about it and just get back to experiencing it.

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