So last night I went out with a buddy to a bar, this being my first true night out with the intention of sarging. Well, I was pretty pumped about it, had some canned material in the back of my mind that I was more than ready to drop if needed, but did not want to rely on it.

I definitely had a lot of fun, but the sarge did not go nearly as well as I was hoping it would. Mostly, it took me a pretty long time before I finally worked up the balls to approach a set. When I finally did, it was a HB8 by herself, so I went over, introduced myself. Right away she semed not receptive, but I was determined to not eject, and rather get rejected. Well, I started off telling her how you can tell a lot about a person by how they shake hands, then AMOG comes over and says you can also tell a lot by how they kiss, and I'm thinking, "Damnit, okay, next set." But funny enough, when he leaned in to kiss her she backed away. So I dropped in some witty remarks and got some laughs, but she just eventually blew me off. Okay, at least I got over my AA and finally approached a girl. Damn that was hard.

So then my friend spotted a girl from our hometown who apparently goes to college with me. We are talking to this girl, things going pretty well, actually did some kino, which is something I would usually be too scared to do. So she actually offers me her number and says she's leaving but to call her. I say alright, then point to my cheek and get a kiss there. We split, and the rest of the night I just kind of chilled having a good time with my buddy.

All in all it was a good night, though I feel like I have a LOT of work to do.

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Good stuff man, you gotta start somewhere. It's almost easier to approach a set of more then 1 girl. That way it's less odvious you're going to hit on them lol. if I approach 1 girl, I usually use a statement or comment to open then go from there. Make the statement pretty non threatening and usually they'll respond with interest. You can say almost anything... "thats some weather we got out there" would even work lol. Nice play with the number close and the cheek move is classic.

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Dude. If you are going to throw up the USA Wrestling colors...do not tell me you are usually too afraid to kino. That's bullshit. As a fellow wrestler and aspiring social artist this is what I do to help me get going right off the bat.

As soon as you get in the bar, club, whatever ,approach one set. Immediately. Then go right into another one. These can be all dudes, mixed sets, or all women. Let's be honest, all you are trying to do is to get you heart pumping and your mind working. Relax. You're out to have fun. I don't consider myself warmed up until 4 sets have opened. At this point, you are flowing and it makes you seem invincible. It's great. Try it out and let me know how it works. That's what me and my boys out here are doing and it seems to be working.

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