hey, I've been living in minneapolis for the last year, and before that, Scotland

I'm pretty new to pick up, read the game and watched a bunch of Adam Lyon's stuff on youtube, (love that guy's material).

So I just recently had a pretty nasty breakup...and so now I really want to learn pick up. I used to be a competitive gamer, and I like to think I'm good at picking up new skills pretty quickly.

Right now, I am super eager and motivated to dive as deep as I can into any of this stuff, so please anyone in minneapolis, or even MINNESOTA, please hit me up!!!

Hey, Glad to see your taking steps. I actually got into PU after breaking up with a GF also who had me twisted around her finger. I had a few buddies who liked to go out and talk to women and I felt rusty so I googled how to talk to women and found DYD by David D. I've since evolved way past that.

There are a bunch of haters on this forum. Also, guys who pose as experts, but really don't know anything about PU and don't go out into the field at all so be careful what advice you take. I suggest you create your own unique system.

Develop a natural framework then fill it in with stuff you find on here. There are many posts on natural game in the Natural game section.

Here is a basic one:

Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

Then go on here and look over advice on texting and pick what you find the most fun to test out. Employ your texting game (or phone conversation game if you want to do that) and set up the date ASAP

Look for advice on dates (pick the thing you like best)

Look for advice on how to get a kiss

Look for advice on how to get a woman isolated in a place you can have sex.

Look for advice on how to prevent and overcome LMR

Look for advice on how to manage having an abundance of women in your life/managing a one woman relationship.

Answers to each piece of that puzzle can be found here for free.

A more advanced but still basic framework

pre approach - Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

I suggest after you develop your own personal system (which can include nlp/hypnosis if you want) that you practice practice practice, then look for better skills to fill each section.

If you choose to do this can you do me a favor? I want to see what you create. PM me your completed framework (i don't care how long the PM is tell the whole story). I'll look over it and clean it up and streamline it for you.

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and demonstrate to all of us what’s really possible. I learn what those few
extraordinary individuals do that’s different from everybody else, and then emulate
them.

Pmd you

Neo is solid, hopefully he'll take you under his arm and show you a thing are two. If he gives you advice don't be a jackass, and actually listen to him because he'll have your best interest in mind.

He likes to ask you a bunch of questions he already knows the answer to. He'll make you feel small, but just ignore it. It's his style of teaching that works for him.

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I am a hunter of human excellence. I seek out those individuals who break the norms
and demonstrate to all of us what’s really possible. I learn what those few
extraordinary individuals do that’s different from everybody else, and then emulate
them.

hey fudge! thanks for the advice, i'll for sure send you a framework of what I do...once i figure one out .

Neo - There is nothing wrong with tough love, and I appreciate any help I can get.

I know this is just the start of my journey, but I'm feeling pretty optimistic thus far

thanks for the warm welcome guys