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But will you guys say unequivocally, because I still don't know the answer yet, that it is unacceptable for a guy's date to go dance with another guy, during the date?
Of course she shouldn't have done that on a first date.
I think DLV was only a small issue here, but you put yourself in a bad situation to begin with. You didn't bond with her face-to-face before going on a date in a social setting. So you really didn't have a chance to even have value in her eyes. If you did have that time to bond and she saw that you were actually worth something then she would have declined dancing with another guy.