Hello,

I found this Forum when I was googling how to meet women and I am pretty intrigued. I'll lay things out for you even though my life is pretty embarrassing to be honest. I am a 29 year old virgin and I am very shy (except on stage) and I cant even get a woman to look at me. My day job is gas station attendant (embarrassing) but what I really want is to be an actor and Im not even sure that's a good thing when it comes to women, even though I think Im a pretty good actor (not improv but i'm great at memorizing lines and acting in plays). Recently I was cast as Othello in my acting company which I'm very proud of but do women care??? Honestly my life is a mess and all i want is to have sex with a pretty girl but I feel like such a loser and I wonder if I ever will.

Anyway; I hope this forum will help. I was looking at the first newbie mission and it seems like something that i can do but I am pretty much the defiintion of AFC and I think this will take me awhile. But I am going to try. I spend a lot of time taking care of my mom and work and acting take up a lot of time but I'm going to try and get my mom to leave me alone because shes not my job and I should have a life too! Anyway; I hope you don't all think I'm a huge loser. I guess I am a huge loser but I want nothing more than to stop being one. I hope this Forum will help. Nice to meet you all.

I will help you! I´m your God!!

Listen... Carefully... First. Read Mystery´s book. The best book on the market among 15 I read anyways.

Second. Gear Up!! Look cool but be yourself!

Third. Women love musicals, actors and all that stuff! Start a profile on a dating community. Let this be known about your acting, women will get interested just because of it.

Fourth. Learn how to take great pictures of yourself! Not in your fucking bathroom!

Fifth. Be an alphamale. One characteristics of an alphamale is training. And you should have a fighting sport too that you endulge in, to get fucking fairless like a motherfucker!!! You will radiance self belief!! Strength! Manliness!

Sixth! Read "Awaken The Giant Within You". Buy on Amazon. Be a positive DYNAMO!!! A Fucking Machine my brother!!! Machine of the SUN! That´s how you should regard yourself and confront the women around you. But. You need to know the rules of the game. By a PUA Master. The rules are many. And need to be honed. Carefully!

Brother!

There is NO EASY WAY OUT.

Thanks for listening.

JHR, Sweden, Pick up Guru

lol pick up guru? you have no idea what you are talking about...

look Flowerburgers, if you want to get better at picking up women start with just making simple approaches. the best thing you can do is take action to get the momentum building to change your life while you still have the drive to change


dont talk to people that say you need to be "alpha" or that tell you to read Mystery's book that came out 9 years ago. its an old old book and it needs to be updated with better stuff and mystery doesnt even go out anymore. hes a loser, just look at his facebook.

welcome to the community! you will learn a lot of amazing, eye opening things here!

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Hehe hello!

Hey, Welcome.

Develop a natural framework then fill it in with stuff you find on here. There are many posts on natural game in the Natural game section.

Here is a basic one:

Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

Then go on here and look over advice on texting and pick what you find the most fun to test out. Employ your texting game (or phone conversation game if you want to do that) and set up the date ASAP

Look for advice on dates (pick the thing you like best)

Look for advice on how to get a kiss

Look for advice on how to get a woman isolated in a place you can have sex.

Look for advice on how to prevent and overcome LMR

Look for advice on how to manage having an abundance of women in your life/managing a one woman relationship.

Answers to each piece of that puzzle can be found here for free.

A more advanced but still basic framework

pre approach - Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

I suggest after you develop your own personal system (which can include nlp/hypnosis if you want) that you practice practice practice, then look for better skills to fill each section.

If you choose to do this can you do me a favor? I want to see what you create. PM me your completed framework (i don't care how long the PM is tell the whole story). I'll look over it and clean it up and streamline it for you.

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Thank you everyone this is very helpful. I am glad I found this Forum and feel hopeful about this for the first time maybe ever. fudge_88 Ill see what I can do. Thank you!!