Ok, after lurking around dozens of pua forums and everything, sarging, i have finally have some mastery over the game, I have finally managed to get some meager success, I am Indian, so my problem is this, I approached this foreigner and I got a number close, things escalated and we had sex, now she is too attached to me, She wants to continue this and I really cannot, For of all she is British, The chances of continuing this forward or getting married with a britisher are low, I would have better success with a Pakistani, I told her why and how this is not possible, and because of past ancestral ( stupid but a sad reality) problems, this is not possible, The british killed my great grandfather and did shitty things to my country, I don't like Britain raj too much but erm, this particular girl was in no way involved in the British raj or something like this. My parents would be fucking pissed if I am dating a white girl, marrying a white girl is just out of the cards, it is unthinkable,.

How do I convince my parents to accept this girl ?

How do I convince this girl not to feel bad, in case I would tell her such things are not possible ?

What should I do ?

So let me get this straight,

You don't see a future with some British girl despite hating the English for a past that did not involve you. but yet you still want to intro her to your family and have her accepted by you and your family?

Just talk to your family and tell them your situation. If she makes you happy and you're both in love, then a countries past shouldn't break you both up.

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No, I guess nobody likes the British raj but this girl was no involved with the British raj, but the main problem is that she is white and my parents would never accept such things, I am stuck, what to do ?

Even If I marry an Indian outside my caste there would be problems, I am so fucking stuck

How old are you?

I get that cultural differences are big for your family... so I guess it's a good thing your family isn't dating her, isn't it? YOU are.

Drives me nuts when I see stuff like this (it's happened to me with a European family that just didn't like me because I'm not from where they were). It's antiquated thinking, but you can't change older people who are set in their ways...

I'd advise you to look after YOU. If your family doesn't like the British, they don't have to marry the British.

If YOU don't like her, that's one thing... Nobody can advise you or help you if your family has already made up your mind for you, though.
Not to be harsh, but what is it you're hoping to get from us, if this is your mindset?

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I am 26 years old.

I know saying this breaks rule no 1 of pickup but this girl is kinda special, she is pretty nice, yes there could be better but as far as now, this would be the best i have dated.


I mean, this when I actually think of it, border lines on racism, funny as it sounds but this is what it is.I need to change my attitude but I am seeing no possibility, I think people should change there attitudes, I am doing nothing wrong, My relatives and family will be upset because I would be marrying a white girl and according to them the worst kind of white girl, a Britisher. This would be worse than marrying outside your caste.

I never did think, I would be stuck with such a problem, never, now either I can appease the girl or my parents, no routine, no trick in the book, is going to be there now. This is like game over.

I need to know, what exactly I need to say or do...
Till now, no routine has been invented for my situation.

Not sure you and I are on the same page here.

Religious and cultural beliefs aside, if you're 26 and you're going to let your parents decide who you can and can't date, there is literally nothing anyone here can tell you that will help you.

You've made up your mind.

There is no routine for this because this isn't pickup. I also don't know how you'd plan to run a pickup routine on your parents --- but that's another story.

You can't be serious. You knew about your family before you had sex with this girl.

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