Today I was kind of reflecting on my past relationships and tried to figure out what went wrong... (so I can do better next time).

And I came to the conclusion that on several cases the relationship ended because she either lost attraction or I lost interest.

Basically a lot of times things go like this: 1st we flirt and tease and there is mutual attraction, 2nd we get intimate, sex few times, then after a while things go stale and we look like a an old family couple with no passion between, basically exchanging just data communication. (that part I gate the most). And then if there is no passion/attraction relationship is over.

So how do you keep attraction going on, after you know each other, can't use the mysterious element, you used most of your jokes and teasing, basically ran out of ideas? Do you keep flirting even in mid stages of the relationship?

Is it actually something that could be taken in consideration and put effort from my side or its just due too "we r not right for each other". But if that is the case, the upper scenario happened to me quite a few times and this makes me think that the cause might be in me. => I should do something different.

said in different way - how far should I go putting passion, effort and acting to keep it alive ?

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"Tell the world what you intend to do, but first show it."

At the end of the day brother, if you have to TRY too hard to keep the spark in a relationship, the reality is that the spark is just not there.

But what you need to do is just continue to show your passion and keep doing things that keep her engaged and wanting to be with you. Stop settling down so quick and just try and keep everything alive and active for as long as you can!

This saying is so true: "Every relationship is ended by the person who cares the LEAST"

Think about it!

Good luck!

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Based on a few of your other threads (one at the PUA Lounge, one at the General Section, and one right here at the Relationship section), I will offer two advices:

1. Desensitize your penis head, improve your cardio and learn proper angling to hit a girl's g-spot, cervix, pubococygeus muscle and so forth.

Sexually Satisfied Girl = Longer Lasting Relationship with a loyal, faithful and submissive woman

Hint: If your girlfriend does not want to submit to ANY or MOST of your simple wishes, then she is NOT sexually satisfied with your bedroom skills.

2. Join a MMA competition and work hard to win.

High Testosterone = Passion

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Actually its not related with the last 2 posts, but I get what do you mean.

Thanks you for your opinion. And happy holidays.

I do shotokan karate.

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"Tell the world what you intend to do, but first show it."

Word of caution on this. A girl can be sexually satisfied (ie. gets off every time) but if there's no spark/variety/anticipation then she will start looking outside the relationship. It happened to me in my last one.

Take your pick OP. Choose this anecdote from an anonymous individual versus this scientific study based on a sample of several heterosexual couples studied over several years and cited by 279 scientists:

http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1 ... ed#preview
Personally, my best relationships are with women I have banged and keep banging really well.

Moreover, I am still unaware how reel2real sexually satisfies a girl. On the other hand, you can always search my previous posts on how I sexually satisfy girls step by step. Study and compare and then decide on your best course of action.

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