Same girl as before. She talks to a gew other guys. She has gone back to her country for a couple weeks and in that time she has become not very communicative, she often ignores SPAM even though she is online (I frikkin hate that app. It makes you paranoid) she likes validation from other men I think.
Also her one drive on her hotmail is public so I can see all the photos she takes. When I try to get things racy or sex based she isn't very responsive either. I tested her and said needs to send me some more photos of her sexy ass and she said she doesn't have anymore (she has lots) and this was this morning. We spoke at 3am and whilst we were speaking she was busy taking hot selfies and one with a hat covering her boob and another with Her hand covering her boob and one on her front with open mouth and ass in red underwear. These weren't for me but I can't be 100% she sent them to someone else either but let's get real. No woman takes sexy shots for no reason
Also, one of her guy friends is her ex from 2 years ago friend and despite him conveyingnsexual interest in her she has said it is nothing but he has a gf also! if I was so calls friends with someone and they started to convey Sexual interest.... That's no longer a friend.

Should I get rid of this one and set her up when she gets back by going to pick her up from airport but driving away or should I chill out and do my best to win her attention? I'm a little in need of help as it doesn't feel like she is invested in this relationship emotionally....

Just simply walk away, unless you don't mind sharing her vagina. She doesn't.

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What do you think the best way is? Do it right at the Christmas phone call? When she gets back in person and stand her up at the airport?

Just text it. Now

Are you a vindictive guy? Are you expecting compensation imposed in punishment. Just Man the fuck up and do it.

Are you in a committed relationship? I didn't read the background story.

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Here is the thing. She doesn't like labels on things. We've been seeing only each other but now that she has gone back to where she is from.....
What's the best thing to say or do?

I like to have the upper hand. It just feels better that way. I enjoy revenge. I'm sorry I just do.

Well it sounds like it's just a FWB thing anyway, at least in her eyes.

The best 'revenge', is to bang plenty of new girls, and enjoy life. She's the one that did not want to 'label' things.

Or, fuck her real good over Christmas break, then ask to borrow money, this will give you your reason to avoid her. The request alone may make her uncomfortable enough to stop pursuing you.

And you get to keep the money.

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Dude - you've been posting about this girl for a month. Basically you can't control her the way you'd like...

You can't make her do what you'd like her to do.

She is ruining your life man! Think of the hours you've spent just trying to wrap your mind around why she's behaving like she is. You're being exclusive to her, but she's pretty clearly just fucking around on you...

Drop this woman - you'll be so much happier.

Take all you've learned from the last month and apply it positively to the next girl. Don't be controlling, don't try to change her... just accept her or don't...

I think you said somewhere that if you have to start analysing a relationship then it's no longer fun. It's a task. And that's not what pick up should be. I will dispose. Thanks for your help on this one. It's been Invaluable. I just wanted to know what the best way is. I am planned to pick her up from Te airport beginning of jan.

Should I play it cool and dump her after one more sex session like RIGHT AFTER or should I do it earlier? Like at the christmas phone call?

Wait wait wait. Alot of vague talk going on. So she's NOT your gf. Has she promised exclusivity?

I'd just fade out and stop replying to her, personally.

She doesn't deserve more than that - but being vindictive it just childish.

She's acting how she's always acted in this relationship - like this shit isn't new. She was gaming on POF while telling you you were "nearly" exclusive -- the next few posts from you made it seem like you'd agreed on exclusivity and she was now your girlfriend.

If that wasn't the case - or even if it was the case: not much to be gained from screwing her over at the airport or over xmas (she's probably fucking another guy over there anyway - she won't care)...

Fade out.

Yeah I agree. Nothing to pursue here. But what I get from OPs post is this may not even be a relationship or something exclusive. The chick is so in charge of him and he's flip flopped on saying she was his gf, to she doesnt like labels, that's it's hard for me to believe that this chick promised ANYTHING with respect to exclusivity. She doesn't seem to care what OP thinks, nor does he stand up for himself, so I doubt she's promise anything to him in the first place. Most likely they're just dating, she said she isn't seeing anyone and OP took that to be she's his gf.

Completely agree on the actual logistics here. The back-story on this is that OP wanted exclusivity so badly he asked before he should have...

I sorta think if she ever actually agreed to it, then it was more or less to just get him off her back.

No offense ctrlindustries - been with you for most of your posts here... You'll be better off without this one.

No doubt about that. She sent suggestive photos to another guy recently and received back a penis photo. I want her to know I know what she has done but when she gets back. Would you suggest I do nothing about this and move on?

Yeah, I don't think she's worth another second of your time.

Delete, block, unfriend. Go live your life (that's what she's doing...)