Hey everybody,

So I'm dealing with a girl now that's unresponsive we've been on 2 dates kissed closed on the second one. But after the second one when i try to set up a new date she's not replying back to it.

This was the last message i sent her yesterday(dec 20): Monday was fun let's keep having some more fun dates What's your schedule like for this Monday? she saw the message but hasnt replied back yet.

I'm thinking of doing a last stand and messaging once more after that i'm cutting her off. Below are some messages i have in mind, they might be crappy and needy but i'll like to get all your thoughts.

PS. she is the worst to text replies with one words or one-liners but in person she talks for hours.



1-"I thought you are interesting and fun to be around. I really want to get to know each other a little better. If you're still down to hang we can plan a day" -- trying to be sweet

2."sheesh you're impossible to get out now ;P do you want to hangout today?" -- calling her out on not replying

3."Maybe that kiss got you to shy now ;P, do you want to hangout today? --trying to be funny

A lot of girls will get bored if there is no action to speak of after two full meetups and that may be what is going on here.

Whatever you do, do not go logical as in the proposed posts. It subcommunicates to her that she is the only thing you've got going on.

She is out meeting other guys; I suggest you go meet more girls.

In your texts to her behave in such a manner as though nothing has happened with regard to her earlier non-replies. I.e. "how are you!! i was just blah blah it was fucking great" or whatever. Be fun, be upbeat, be a man on the go. That's what a woman finds attractive. Don't sulk.

Great suggestion I'll try following that tactic I have other girls on my list that I'm working on also. But I just want to finish off with this one, when would you suggest is a good time to try asking her out again

I'd hold off on directly jumping right back in to proposing a meetup again. Just drop in in a few days with whatever cool shit you are up to. Then segue to the meetup from that little convo. Also in those few days she may reply to your original message. If she does, resist the urge to reply back right away.

eww no

Lol Ya wasn't sure on that one saw somebody use it online

Mate thanks for this took your suggestion just told her about my travels, but I hate girls that are impossible to talk to over text that just replies with one-liners.

Do you have any suggestions on that on how to keep a convo with them?

No worries mate try to scale yourself back on the eagerness scale w/ this particular girl. I would've waited a few days. As it was she may have replied to the earlier texts. One reason for her brief reply may have been she was thinking if she gave a longer reply you would have hit her up for Monday again.

The main question is, do you want to hang out with her in person or have fun long text convos with her. If it's the first, then forget about getting into text game convos with her. Use text primarily as a tool to schedule the meetup. In this situation it was useless to schedule a meetup this quickly hence the suggestion to drop in with a little note. She just doesn't like to text no biggie; she talks nonstop in person and that is what matters. Get her out again and escalate.