so I am talk to a girl I want so insanely much and get along with. but I have fucked it so bad! she do not answer me anymore but i think i have a 1% chance to make it get bake but i ned your help guys.

we have almost never talked together face to face. but like I said I want her so insanely!

I can make some examples (X=me) (O=her)

in october

X: Hi
O: Hi
X: sup?
O: nothing chilling out. and you?
X: I wrote much and we did not speek after that!

in november

X: Hi
O: Hi
X: sup?
O: nothing. and you?
X: I start complain about how my life suck and so on.
O: she act like she care. and we wrote about how bad i am having it lossing my girlfriend. and after that she never answer just se what i have written.


hope you can help me

You've got oneitis badly...

Like cmon - let's be realistic here - you never even see this girl in person, and you've texted a few times.

She's good looking, OK - fair... but she's not special. There are billions of other girls. You have got to take her down off the giant mountain you've built her up on, here or you'll literally never get with her at all. She's just a girl - her shit stinks too.

Looking at your texts, I have to say I'm shocked she's even talking to you. Don't complain about your life! Jesus... why would she want to hear that? You need to be a positive source of energy in her life... not a negative complainer.

Why do you think she may be interested in you? Besides the fact you have her phone number somehow (or maybe this is FB messenger?) she sure isn't flirting with you in these particular messages.

I somewhat agree with the above post, but here's my take on the OP: Bullshitting once a month isn't going to get you anywhere. At all. You need to pull the trigger, and take some meaningful action. Here's how I think a better conversation would go :

X: Hi
O: Hi
X: sup?
O: nothing. and you?
X: Was just thinking, it's been forever since we've hung out! Let me buy you a coffee [beer, smoothie, matzah ball if she's Jewish] and we can catch up... Does Thursday or Friday work better for you?

I'm definitely no expert, but I don't think you're going to get anywhere if you keep dodging the obvious.

Tanks i just Wonder how can i get her attetion when seh never ansvar anymore? The first pm i write to her have to get her attention and want to write back there is my biggest problem now :/ i have learnd some just the shit opener i cant deal with :/

I got the same problem as you . But never and I mean never... talk like I had a bad day or this and that.
Talk like you own the world man . Girls want to hear good things.
Also don't talk about your ex and stuff...
If she ignores you... move along for a while. Leave her for like 2 months.
Then after the 2 months BAM! Here you are... .
Goodluck and let me know how things went!

Stop it.

Meet more women. With the next girls, simply invite them out over text.

I have not spoke with her over a mothe and plan on learn how to write the right things to that girl and other to. I have few girls im writing with now but i see they are not much interested. I have had some improvment. I have gone frome the worst in the world to worst in europe on huck-up i think

But can you guys write some exsempols on how i can write to girls? I wold be very happy.

Your sense of humor and willingness to laugh off "failures" will take you a LONG way in this game.
Sure, here's one for the first text sent to a girl that I have met:

Me: (mentioning some thing that reconnects us to how we met; maybe an inside joke or just some mention of something that is unique to how we met)
Her: Heyy bla bla
Me: Yeah bla bla. Lets grab a drink

Done and done.

Save the escalating and building attraction for when you are right with the girl, in person. Use text to schedule the logistics of the meet up.

Okey i will try but how do i get that girl im in love with to get her attention back? She do not respond so how do i do that?

GFTOW and you won't care about this girl you claim to be in love with. I promise. Side bonus: Her intuition will probably pick up on what you're up to and she may come back to you, at which point you won't really care, thereby only amplifying her attraction.

They hardly even know each other. He has built zero attraction and she's replying with what amounts to 1 word answers.

Asking her out at this point is going to get him a shitty result.

Be exciting, build some attraction.

How do i do that?

You make yourself appear to be a guy she'd want to date.

You need to be interesting, fun and mysterious.

Good looking doesn't hurt either.

From what I can see here, this is nothing more than platonic. I doubt she even knows you're interested in her... And if she's at all good looking, she probably has 10 other guys texting her every day - all trying to do what you are doing...

Aim to have better conversation with her than they are having. Stand out.

I don't know how to write to a girl. So im trying to learn but i cant find any thing for my Lvl