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PostPosted: Wed Dec 17, 2014 12:56 pm 
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Hi,

I need some help on 2 dates.

First one is tonight.
First going for some drinks and after that cinema.
I don't know if I'm in the friendzone, but when I ask her out she responds quickly.
We text a lot but I miss some romance and flirting...

2nd date is this friday.
She is single and me to.
Her boyfriend cheated on her and my girl lied to me.
we are going to a christmas fair.

I can always open the conversation. But I can't twist it intp romance. I hope you guy's can help me out.

Greetings!


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 17, 2014 5:09 pm 
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Hi,

I need some help on 2 dates.

First one is tonight.
First going for some drinks and after that cinema.
I don't know if I'm in the friendzone, but when I ask her out she responds quickly.
We text a lot but I miss some romance and flirting...

2nd date is this friday.
She is single and me to.
Her boyfriend cheated on her and my girl lied to me.
we are going to a christmas fair.

I can always open the conversation. But I can't twist it intp romance. I hope you guy's can help me out.

Greetings!
Are you looking to get laid or make friends?

Sounds like you've known 'date 1' for a while now, but have not made a move on her yet.

The drinks are a good idea, but the cinema sucks. No closeness, touching, sexy conversation.

Oh well, it is what it is. Salvage it by taking her back home for more drinks, and a cozy movie at home, where you CAN have touching and, sexy conversation. . If she will go, she is open for you to make a move. MAKE ONE!

As far as your text problems, fuck romance, get sexual.
Tell her all the dirty thing you are going to do to her after your date.

'Date 2'

Segway the conversation into sex, use innuendos, and kino, Ask her funnest sexual encounter, go from there.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 17, 2014 6:47 pm 
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Are you looking to get laid or make friends?

Sounds like you've known 'date 1' for a while now, but have not made a move on her yet.

The drinks are a good idea, but the cinema sucks. No closeness, touching, sexy conversation.

Oh well, it is what it is. Salvage it by taking her back home for more drinks, and a cozy movie at home, where you CAN have touching and, sexy conversation. . If she will go, she is open for you to make a move. MAKE ONE!

As far as your text problems, fuck romance, get sexual.
Tell her all the dirty thing you are going to do to her after your date.

'Date 2'

Segway the conversation into sex, use innuendos, and kino, Ask her funnest sexual encounter, go from there.
First things first... Thanks for your reply ;).

I'm looking for dates to -> girlfriends or just one timers.

Jep date one I know for a while + she knows my previous relationship sow I don't hope she is in the friend zone already.
I'm always afraid on making a move... from dating persons I don't know to even persons I know already.

Yeah I know drinks are picture perfect but it's hard to talk to this one. I always tough romance was a good idea. But I took it wrong, I guess.
I'm not aiming for sex's with this one. She's not that girl that will go from 0 to 100.
Plus she has to work tomorrow and her sister is home. So we can't do it... I just want to kiss this one tonight.
But I don't have the material to turn this date into ... a kiss.
I just know her true friends and that's it.

The second date.

Well this is good for me. We haven't seen each other for like 2 years.
So a lot has changend. Like I said she is and I'm single. Plus it's weekend...

I will use your tips for sure on friday.

Greetings!


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 17, 2014 7:45 pm 
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I'm always afraid on making a move... from dating persons I don't know to even persons I know already!
Okay let me clue you into a secret; Girls are complemented by the fact you are sexually attracted to them.

She will NOT be offended if you make a move!
(But remember that does not guarantee they will fuck you.)
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I'm not aiming for sex's with this one. She's not that girl that will go from 0 to 100.
Plus she has to work tomorrow and her sister is home. So we can't do it... I just want to kiss this one tonight.
But I don't have the material to turn this date into ... a kiss.
If you don't show sexual interest she will NEVER give you that kiss you so longingly desire. (Except maybe on the cheek, like a BFF or cousin.)
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I'm not aiming for sex's with this one. She's not that girl that will go from 0 to 100.
Hate to bust your bubble Bro, but this is Bullshit, Unless she's a virgin, she's just has never gone 'from 0 to 100 with YOU.
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Well this is good for me. We haven't seen each other for like 2 years.
So a lot has changend. Like I said she is and I'm single. Plus it's weekend...

I will use your tips for sure on Friday.
I hope so Bro, good luck and don't pussy out, MAKE A MOVE!

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2014 4:26 am 
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Number one didn't go as planed. But hey there is always option B (date nr 2).

But I got a quick question.
I got some tutorials...

* Mystery Method
- Mystery Method Video Archive

PDF's (Mystery Method - The Venusian Arts Handbook & Mystery Method - Cheat Sheet seduction)

+ Pandora's Box System (Vin DiCarlo)

What is in your opinion the best thing to start with?
Like I said I got a date on friday... and I really can't screw this up.
Greetings!


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2014 1:49 pm 
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Chief (another mod here) has a pretty decent blueprint for first dates...

http://chiefpua.com/first-date/

You can check that out as well.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2014 3:06 pm 
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Elaborate please.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 18, 2014 4:31 pm 
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Elaborate please.
I dated a gogo (club dancer) / model. 1 year and 3 months to be exactly. And yes she was a "10"
The date -> She will probably ask, like every girl I meet now... how things went (breakup).
They all start the conversation like this. I tell them I'm over it and want to move on.

Then normally I ask them what they are looking for (in a guy).
Because I want to know what type of person is sitting in front of me.

But from there I'm really frozen... and I will try some of your tips and going to seduction.

So the date on Friday...
We meet in a city far away from my place (40min drive) from my place.
So sexs will be out of the question. I just want to kiss her and go from there ;).
And on the second date I can move her to my place ;). To watch a movie...


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Chief (another mod here) has a pretty decent blueprint for first dates...

http://chiefpua.com/first-date/

You can check that out as well.
reading SPAM ;)


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I dated a gogo (club dancer) / model. 1 year and 3 months to be exactly. And yes she was a "10"
The date -> She will probably ask, like every girl I meet now... how things went (breakup).
They all start the conversation like this. I tell them I'm over it and want to move on.

Why are you mentioning dating a go-go dancer in the first few dates?


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I dated a gogo (club dancer) / model. 1 year and 3 months to be exactly. And yes she was a "10"
The date -> She will probably ask, like every girl I meet now... how things went (breakup).
They all start the conversation like this. I tell them I'm over it and want to move on.

Why are you mentioning dating a go-go dancer in the first few dates?
Well the thing is. I will tell you the whole story ;). Where do I start....

When I was 6 I saw my parents split up and it effected me a lot. I saw my dad cry like a child and he told me don't ever cheat on a lady because you see what happens... and that always effected as a person.

When I was 17 a girl added me true my msn profile. I tough it was a joke at first...
But there she was a beautiful 16 year old girl. Who had no experience just like me.
But she said "on your profile I readed you where a nice guy" who you can talk to. She asked for help to get a guy and eventually she dated me and we became friends at first.
But after that we had a relationship for 4 years and after that 2 years a sexual relationship.
So we where there 6 years together.
After the broke up I became a DJ to focus me on some other things in life.

I met some girls I got into bed with. But I had a good relationship with them (fuck buddy's)
Because I always told them from the start I didn't want a relationship.
They didn't care, because they wanted the same as me ;).

So after the broke up 3 years went bye.
And I was DJ'ing in Spain. There where some girls really beautiful girls.
Some of them are models who do modeling and dancing like a gogo dancer.

And one of them spoke to me.
But I never wanted that kinda girl from the start + she was Asian...
And I'm like in my mind... "She can get so much better... and how will this end"

So at a club we spoke. We had a good conversation... and I ended up yeah I'm going downstairs looking for some girls. Nice to talk to you....

So I was dancing. Like always having a good time. And a guy wanted her but she didn't want him.
So I came to help her and asked to dance with her. After that we spoke outside and I ended up walking to her hotel room which was on the same floor as mine.
She lied that she couldn't get into her room. So I said you can sleep at my place.
We ended up kissing in bed and when the time came she stopped me and told me. I rather wait for sexs.
I was "ok"

Next day the news was already buzzing she told everyone that I had sexs with her.
That they told me.
And people told her I ended up telling everyone I had sexs with her.
After 2 days I told her... This why in the blue hell would you end up telling that.
And she told me no you told them... I told her people just don't want us to make out...
So we ended again in bed.
We kissed and she wanted sexs now. But I said no.... you have to wait ;).
At first I wanted sexs, and the second time she wanted this.
So I turned things around and told her NO. I told her let slow things down...
Plus there where guy's in my room sleeping with me.. That would be so bad for our first time.

I said when we are in Belgium... let's hook up.
Second day in Belgium we dated and it ended in sex directly.
It was a nice time. But it ended really, really bed ;).

So now I'm looking for someone new.
I hope I don't ZzZ you guy's to dead with this story.

Greetings!


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I dated a gogo (club dancer) / model. 1 year and 3 months to be exactly. And yes she was a "10"
The date -> She will probably ask, like every girl I meet now... how things went (breakup).
They all start the conversation like this. I tell them I'm over it and want to move on.

Why are you mentioning dating a go-go dancer in the first few dates?
Well the thing is. I will tell you the whole story ;). Where do I start....

When I was 6 I saw my parents split up and it effected me a lot. I saw my dad cry like a child and he told me don't ever cheat on a lady because you see what happens... and that always effected as a person.

When I was 17 a girl added me true my msn profile. I tough it was a joke at first...
But there she was a beautiful 16 year old girl. Who had no experience just like me.
But she said "on your profile I readed you where a nice guy" who you can talk to. She asked for help to get a guy and eventually she dated me and we became friends at first.
But after that we had a relationship for 4 years and after that 2 years a sexual relationship.
So we where there 6 years together.
After the broke up I became a DJ to focus me on some other things in life.

I met some girls I got into bed with. But I had a good relationship with them (fuck buddy's)
Because I always told them from the start I didn't want a relationship.
They didn't care, because they wanted the same as me ;).

So after the broke up 3 years went bye.
And I was DJ'ing in Spain. There where some girls really beautiful girls.
Some of them are models who do modeling and dancing like a gogo dancer.

And one of them spoke to me.
But I never wanted that kinda girl from the start + she was Asian...
And I'm like in my mind... "She can get so much better... and how will this end"

So at a club we spoke. We had a good conversation... and I ended up yeah I'm going downstairs looking for some girls. Nice to talk to you....

So I was dancing. Like always having a good time. And a guy wanted her but she didn't want him.
So I came to help her and asked to dance with her. After that we spoke outside and I ended up walking to her hotel room which was on the same floor as mine.
She lied that she couldn't get into her room. So I said you can sleep at my place.
We ended up kissing in bed and when the time came she stopped me and told me. I rather wait for sexs.
I was "ok"

Next day the news was already buzzing she told everyone that I had sexs with her.
That they told me.
And people told her I ended up telling everyone I had sexs with her.
After 2 days I told her... This why in the blue hell would you end up telling that.
And she told me no you told them... I told her people just don't want us to make out...
So we ended again in bed.
We kissed and she wanted sexs now. But I said no.... you have to wait ;).
At first I wanted sexs, and the second time she wanted this.
So I turned things around and told her NO. I told her let slow things down...
Plus there where guy's in my room sleeping with me.. That would be so bad for our first time.

I said when we are in Belgium... let's hook up.
Second day in Belgium we dated and it ended in sex directly.
It was a nice time. But it ended really, really bed ;).

So now I'm looking for someone new.
I hope I don't ZzZ you guy's to dead with this story.

Greetings!

Right, but why are you telling GIRLS/YOUR DATES about the go-go dancer?

Don't mention other girls on your first few dates!


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Right, but why are you telling GIRLS/YOUR DATES about the go-go dancer?

Don't mention other girls on your first few dates!
Agreed

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Right, but why are you telling GIRLS/YOUR DATES about the go-go dancer?

Don't mention other girls on your first few dates!
Agreed
I knew both girls for some time now. So they know I was in a relationship.
With a girl that danced in clubs. The date from last night even saw her dancing on a festival.
So it's normal that they say this on a first date.
"I have respect for you that you let her dance, and that men are actually checking your girlfriend out"
I told them directly I met her in that situation and I was ok with it.
In my mind I'm like she dances and at the end of the night she is with me.
It's all about trust. And then I try to end that chat directly.
Because I don't want to be the guy that speaks all the time of his ex girl...

The girl from yesterday I know her for like 6 months now.

And the girl I'm dating on Friday well I know her for like 2-3 years.
Met her in the club, but I was more interested at that time in her friend.
But like I said time past.... So I'm hopefully clean in her book right now :D


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 19, 2014 12:04 am 
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So the date tomorrow goes like this.

I have to pick her up at her place. She still lives with her parents...
After that we are going to a Christmas fair....
But do I have to use "negging" on a date?

Grtz


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