So heres the situation. Im in a real small class with this chick and from the start I made sure I stood out in class, after awhile I thought I fell into the LJF zone. I pulled back and she played into it. At first I had trouble getting her outta the classroom, now we walk back to our apts together.

I ran into her outside of class at a liquor store that I stopped @ on te way back from the gym, and sorta flopped, mostly shocked that I ran into her, and intimidated cuz se was looking all nice, but it was obvious she was nervous too.

And last week I asked her to come with me to a comedy club, and she go excited and said yes, I got her number, but I dont think I made it clear that it was a date. Sooo i turns out you have to be 21 to get in, and she is 20 so was like "well we should hang out another time". And I talked to her a few times over the weekend but we both ended up on our own shit.

Basically I think Im on the border of LJBF. Im looking for a good way to convey what I want, without it being awkward given ive blown the easy chances to make it obvious. I basically dont want to creep her out. And also feel free to grill me where I messed up, Im just back into the game and this feels different to me since I actually like this girl, vs a girl I just wanna hook up with..

usually the best ticket outta ljbf is to drop all contact completely. basicaly stating that if you cant be a boyfriend/FB/whatever you want outta this than you dont want to be anything but a stranger. at least for a while...


But aside from that, have you tried to initiate kino? is she comfortable with it? ... you need to show her pritty much right from the start your a sexual being. If you can communicate through touch without making her feel uncomfortable than your not in the worst place yet... theres still hope.

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