It's freaking overwhelming. It's like we are with each other 24/7, ugh. And I've fallen into the trap of texting her back too. But we exchange sooooo many texts throughout the day, and she is always blowing up my phone unless she is at work. It's seriously overwhelming, suffocating, bleh. I honestly think that may be a big part of why we broke up lol, but my phone is still "bing bing bing" from her lol and we're not even together. I thought breaking up with her would make me feel relieved, and it did, but still my phone is blowing up from her lol. And it makes me feel so suffocated, overwhelmed, etc... AND WE'RE NOT EVEN TOGETHER! She's basically saying "I'll be your eff buddy IDC I'll wait an eternity for you" and at first I was like oh sweet... no relationship and I still get the goods... but now it's like damn leave me alone lol.

I think part of it is my fault. Cuz I'm texting her back and stuff, and thus exchanging MULTIPLE texts throughout each day. I'ma withdraw from texting her so much. So far I've been doing it for 15 minutes or so minutes lol... I feel less overwhelmed I must say.

Anyway else dealt with a girlfriend/ex/some chick that is head over heels with you and constantly blows up your phone. How did/do you deal with it?

i've been through the same scenario man and its only 3 ways out (one way is illegal AF lol)

1) tell her how you feel. what i did was explain to the girl "i just need a little space, we can talk everyday or from time to time but i need space to see if i can honestly live without you, you're just overwhelming me. give me a chance to miss you" worked for me lmao

2) just ignore her, block her number, delete every trace of her, just forget her....this is bad because you MIGHT lose out of a good girl

3) kill her. if you really hate what she's doing just kill her (IM FUCKING PLAYING DON'T DO IT FOREAL)

BUT HONESTLY i would go for the first option or atleast be honest with her. if she can't accept that then it might be best just to ignore her or help her find somebody new

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Lmao @ #3! I kinda told her about #1, but not in depth the way you said it. I like the way you put it. And number 2 is last resort... Right now I'm just gonna ignore her for a bit, text her much less... And if it's still bad I'ma block lol

im tell you girls get crazy when they don't know what you're doing inbetween those texts. i've been stalked, raped, chased, and fought by pyscho girls.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Fuck yeah they do! Omg lmao at raped!! That shit is hilarious

Girls are crazy, every single one of them. And if a guy tells you that his girl isn't, he's dating a tranny.

OP, if she says she'll even wait an eternity for you, I can't imagine this not working.

Seriously, just tell her what you told us.

Set your phone to where her texts don't make a noise. Only send her one text a day unless it's a day you plan on meeting up and banging.

This girl has crazy written all over her. Have some fun and then fall off the face of the earth when it becomes too much.

why are you complaining?!????? it's your fault!!! why do you reply?!?!?

Omg fucking genius bro! Kinda feel like an asshole doing so, but I think that's the best way to do it

yea it takes a genius to block a number.... -.- go figure.