What is the best way to handle dominant women who also hates conflict/drama? A post on doomed relationships in the relationships thread and thinking of my ex got me thinking....

In my situation she wasn't a man eater but always had to be right and got frustrated when not in control and would try to mold me into her vision of a boyfriend. My dominant attitude I feel she didnt handled well and would get upset. Unfortunately by the end I started pussing out and would just admit my fault and let her think she's right which let her. This only let her add a strike mark to my record, like admitting guild for a speeding ticket, and keep her thinking she's the rational one.

Don't allow yourself to be dominated. It usually happens when guys try to wins girl over and it sets the precedent at the very beginning.

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that is offtopic. has nothing to do with pick up. you were the one being gamed. not the other way around.

I think it is on topic. What is the PUA way of handling a woman that is dominant and has to right or in control.

A PUA doesn't want to bend over and take it in the ass but being directly alpha seems to be counter-productive.

Lol seriously??? the guy is asking a pretty valid question.

The way to deal with a dominant woman is pretty difficult dude i've only came across a few. You have to have the correct frame and high social status to even get her attention. Also an alpha woman i normally game her in a group if she is with company as i prefer to win the group and then her. If alone you have to be strong minded and not be phased by the curveballs she will throw at you.

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I was answering to him. He conscientiously did nothing. He was the one being played. There's nothing to see here. Sure you have to have a correct frame (not sure about social statues but let's assume). He just happen to have it. He wasn't conscious about it. Didn't made any move. Did basically nothing. And then she gamed him and has absolute control.
Then after that he acted like an afc.
There's nothing pua related here...

My advice, start by learning something so you can properly act on those situations. There isn't much to do here. It's like he wants to run a marathon but can only run 100 meters. There's plenty of material on the forum. Sure he will find something useful.

man i delt with dominant women and the thing i do is be the biggest most arrogant funny asshole i can be. if she gets mad then say something funny that'll soften the mood, play with her, don't show any submission when she gets mad, just smile/let it go. don't ever explain yourself. AND DON'T EVER APOLOGIZE UNLESS YOU DID SOMETHING HORRIBLE like kill her goldfish or something. just let everything dominant she say slide right off your superior alpha dominance....it's nothing sexist about that.....Most dominant women are only dominant because they haven't met a man who'll make them submissive, treat her like any other girl, if she pisses you off go to the next. People not only women are disposable not in the sense that you should treat them wrong but you only have one life why waste it with people that won't make you happy?

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

As someone who was convinced for the best part of a two decades that dominant women were for me I feel your pain OP.

Simple fact is you weren't compatible, unless you enjoy endless drama. Dominant women are a rather meagre percentage of the population, spotting them is an art form in itself. Living with them nigh on impossible - unless you are submissive.

Two tips if you do like dominant women. Never back down from an argument, quite the opposite use the energy and passion to your own ends. This doesn't work when you have kids though.

Secondly make them pay for everything in emotional terms. Exhaust them, stay silent and let their pecking wash over you.

One of you was destined for madness eventually.

Unfortunately Dominant women thrive on drama. Sure they like to dominate, but they like the challenge of getting to dominate more than actually dominating. If they know they can dominate you they will get bored easily. As long as you are a challenge, she will stay very interested. Unfortunately one of the best ways to stay a challenge to these women is to always give her the fear of leaving, or rather making her aware that you can walk anytime. This will keep her on her toes but is not sustainable in the long run, as a long term relationship must thrive on trust of staying together and on mutual respect and communication. Also being extremely vulnerable whilst showing willingness to walk is a good way to communicate with these girls. You can let out your fantasies with them of having them do things to you that no other girl would likely do.

But yes, being dominated all the time is not a nice feeling. They will obviously want to mould you into their version of a perfect boyfriend, even project things onto you and say things like I didn't think you were like that, make you feel bad for behavior, in which case you must remain strong and not give a fuck about her thoughts and just keep doing you.