Okay, I was out with a friend last night at someones house and we brought two girls along. I knew one of them and had just met the other. I walked up to both of them and said "Hey its nice seeing you again'' to the girl I knew and I introduced myself to the other girl along with giving a handshake an a hug(usually I don't hug the first time I introduce myself but she was with happy to do it). It was going well, a friend of mine and a current marine were wrestling while we watched. I sat next to her and talked to her and her friend. I made her laugh and all was well. However, she got upset and walked away from all of us so I went to go talk to her. She was sitting on the curb around the corner and she basically said one personal thing and the main thing was I guess she planned on leaving early but my friend who drove said no because we had only been here for like 30 minutes. She complained to her friend that she was going to get in trouble and she had to leave and kept at it.

Anyway, I talked to her and made her smile and laugh a little. She smiled and got up with me and we walked back to the house. I thought I did well with comfort building but when we went to sit down she was upset again and she sat on the chair to my right not right next to me which was annoying. Again, I try talking to her. I make her smile and laugh then shes upset again. I open the garage to have a smoke, she walks out while on the phone all upset with someone. She walks up to me while i'm smoking and we talk, have a normal conversation. She stands next to me and I have my arm around her while we are talking. Her friend comes out and they start to argue and her friends like i'm going to take a walk while arguing. I put my arm around her and say yeah lets take a walk. I did this to avoid a real fight from happening by the way, not to isolate because it was not the right time I think. We walk down the street a little and it didn't seem like she wanted to take a few more steps but im like ''come on walk with me''.

We start talking across the street and its going well, shes laughing and smiling and seemed fine now. She said '' yeah, i'm usually a good girl but *shows hickey on neck* I lean in i'm like ''what am I supposed to be seeing'' I lean in more and im like ''ohh you want me to kiss your neck'' I kiss her on the neck and we both laugh and continue to talk. She was standing in front of me shivering a little so I tried getting her to come stand at my side. She says '' I would but *pauses for briefly* I just got this boyfriend and i've been through so much in the past and I just feel really bad when I do anything that doesn't seem loyal'' to which I replied '' Ohh, you must have mistaken my kindness for flirting. I was just trying to be nice'' which I feel was a bad response on my part. I should have said ''ohh yeah, how long have you been dating and asked questions to catch her in a lie if it was one. Anyway, my friend walks over and her mom picked her up, she said bye but didn't give a hug. That was annoying although mid way through this ordeal I got her phone number and said we should hang out again sometime.

My questions: I texted her last night about an hour after she left with the usual '' Hey its so and so did you get home safe?'' Its now the next day and I have not gotten a reply. Probably no big deal but what do you guys think?

Another question, do you guys think she made up the boyfriend thing because she was uncomfortable? She only seemed uncomfortable after I kissed her neck because before she was standing next to me while I had my arm around her earlier. So, maybe she felt like she was being unfaithful at that point or like I said, was just uncomfortable.

And another, what should I do next time a girl is upset like this one or says ''I have a boyfriend'' ???

She was pretty good looking and I am not sure where to go from here. Any advice guys?


I have one more quick story that I need advice on. I was hanging out with two other girls I had over at my house a few weeks back and I made out with their friend. Anyway, my drove around a little and we all talked. We found a party they wanted to go to but my friend who drove didn't want to go. He thought the girls were going to come back out quick but they decided to stay. I messaged one of them on instagram the next day and asked for her number. She gave it within a a minute, so I texted her but never got a reply. A few days later I texted her to see if she wanted to hang out. She said ''sorry I cant''. Bad reply. However, I texted her again a few days after that asking her what she was doing. She replied and we texted for a little but when I took 30 minutes to reply she didn't text back. I haven't texted her since. Should I text her and what should I say?

Thanks in advance everyone.

I wanted to answer each question, but I'm going to say this instead. She told you that she had a boyfriend but admitted she wasn't loyal to him. That was her being honest and allowing you to make the decision whether or not you want to continue. Your response should have been to keep escalating. When a girl mentions her boyfriend you don't even acknowledge it...just keep escalating.

As for her not returning your text...don't worry about it. Too many reasons on why she didn't return your text.

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Seriously, stop over analyzing stuff. It really destroys everything.

"What am I doing wrong?" is the wrong question(you probably didn't do anything wrong, but yet you seek an answer). The correct question is "How can I meet more people?" and "How can I experience more of this excitement?". This helped me alot.

Thanks for the advice. So even though she didnt reply I should text her later this week to see if she wants to hang out?
And what about the other girl that stopped texting me? Should I still try? Or give up and find another girl?