Hi! tough situation, would really appreciate some men advice here.

- met this hot and good mood girl, Vanessa, 2 months ago. she asked about me to the recepcionist of a health clinic me we both go. even though i was already 'in love' for another girl i was hanging out, added her on facebook. Vanessais from my city, but currently lives 500 km away on a job project. will come back to my city in January (now it is December)
- she started chatting to me and eventually when she was on town we went on a date and kissed. it was really good, i really liked her, and started to become in doubt of who to focus: the other girl i was dating or Vanessa.
- i received feedback from the receptionist that Vanessa told her she liked VERY much our date and thought of me as boyfriend material.
- i went on vacation for 20 days; continued to chat with both girls
- came back last week and things with the first girl started to accelerate; i decided to tell Vanessa i was with this other girl. yes, big mistake...
- Vanessa reacted saying she thought it was nice for me to be honest, but now she has no desire to hang out with me anymore - of course. This was 3 days ago, we haven´t talked since.
- I started to think she is really special and I want to know her better. I´m not feeling the way I felt about the first girl anymore
- I´m travelling to live on another country for 6 months in February
- Vanessa will come to my city in about 2 weeks to spend the weekend. I´m thinking of asking her out, but not sure what exactly to tell her

- what would you do? Girls like her are very difficult to find, we have A LOT in common, including our skin disease (no big deal)

- would you talk to her now? what would you tell?

its a tough situation.
this week i will talk to the receptionist if she has anything new to tell me, maybe Vanessa talked to her.

Thank you guys

You only want her now because you want what you can't have. You were perfectly fine with letting her go for the other girl until she expressed her desire to not hang out with you anymore.

As to how to get her back in to the fold: Tell her things are complicated btw you and the girl and you are confused and you want to see her again. Or break up with the current girl and inform her of this. Of course, if you do this, you'll want the current girl back and get bored with the new toy.

I feel like you're not ready to 'settle down' yet, so if that is the case, get out and meet more girls.

Thank you oceanx
Actually I wasn´t fine with letting her go, thought about it and decided to not be an asshole with the other girl. But told Vanessa on a sudden decision, which now i Regret
I don´t think this is a good alternative. She would say: You need to be clear what you want. You had your chance, I´m not the girl to be your second option - in fact she already said this to me Breaking with the current girl maybe a possibility but it is risky. Of course if I conclude current girl is not for me, things will eventually end naturally.

that´s good advise, but I feel very much Vanessa has everything to do with me. Only bad thing was she is (temporarily) away.

There is a reggae show next weekend we were going. My plan for now is to contact her one day before she arrives in town and say I want to talk to her. Eventually I will try to go to the show with her. But this would be major score.

I´m not sure if I should talk to her before that and what should be my talk, my speech.

Thanks again guys, would appreciate some help.