Saturday December 13, 2014
Ran daygame with MIF.
I got our waitresses phone number. I primed this one woman who licked her lips then looked down at her phone. When I approached she didn't blow out, but kept inching away as I talked to her so I left.
I know I didn't read that shit wrong...wtf? I got back to MIF and he asked me did I see her ring. I told him I didn't... Odd behavior makes sense now.
I blew out like 15 women that gave me IOIs. I didn't like them. MIF and I talked about my standards and he says I'm trying to find photoshopped women in real life.
Is true, so I will turn my filter down a bit.
MIF and I went to break down the day. I learned a lot from MIF today. He gave me a few new body language queues that I wasn't aware of that he has been studying from a former FBI interrogator.
MIF was trying to tell me it takes years to get on the level of the Gurus in an attempt to get me to stop trying to speed up his learning curve. I believe he still thinks these gurus walk around being able to immediately take home every single girl they see on queue.
Not at all. See MIF is stuck in the approach game. He's going around approaching women, and that's all that he wants to do. Approach... I'm like he has that tool in his bag already and am trying to help him realize he is wasting his time focusing on just cold approaching a bunch of women.
He wants to keep cold approaching because he doesn't feel confident. He then explained to me that the ONLY way he wants to get more confident is to run cold approaches. Sure boss. I can give you 10 ways to gain confidence outside of cold approaching, but if you don't want to know that's fine.
I have a problem with his methods. They are extremely slow in my eyes. He only wants to game hardcore for the next year, then he's going into relationship hunter mode. But he still wants to take it slow. Well that's just a fundamental difference in our personalities.
I could tell during times when I talked to MIF today he was getting annoyed with me constantly pressing him to reach the next level faster. He feels pressured and all of that. I understand.
My IQ isn't super high. It falls between 140 and 150 by the away. I'm not some super Genius, but I am in the Genius room. Really? wow but your posts have so many errors. That has nothing to do with IQ i just don't give a fuck.
I forget sometimes that other people's learning capabilities are not on that level. The distance between me and the average person is GREATER than the distance between the average person and a mentally retarded one. It's not fair to compare his progress to how fast I would move. He is making steady progress.
A word on that. All having a high IQ affords you is the ability to learn exponentially faster. Ability alone means nothing. I'm sure my brother's have higher capacities than I do, but their lives are shit and they are dumb as bricks because they've allowed their talented brains to rot. Now, terrible habits rule their lives. Like habits do for most people.
The path of the man who tries to help others succeed is a hard road. If you truly want to help then you can't just mention something one time and expect the person you're trying to help to take it in then use it correctly immediately. Everyone is not I. You have to battle against peoples habits.
The position of the man who tries to help others succeed is a position filled with hearing other peoples excuses, and them lashing out at you when their frustrations reach a boiling point. Granted MIF never lashed out at me, but I can tell that shit is just under the surface.
It's very annoying and sometimes I want to say fuck people because of it and never help another person again. You my reader, I think you're a PUA. Let me draw a similarity.
It's like when you're running the set and you can pretty much tell how things will go because you've been there before. You do this she responds that way right?
When I start helping most people and I hear them talk, I think "here we go again with the token excuses, bs, and in-congruence." I've been here a 1000 times and I know the patterns. I've already stopped helping people entirely that aren't looking to improve themselves from the start due to this stupid little pattern of excuses then lashing out. I don't care how bad their situation is.
I still help people often. Yesterday while at the massage therapists place (i know, i said fuck that bitch, but I somehow ended up back in contact with the weedman who then got me to go over the massage therapists house.) I met a teacher and told him how he could earn more money doing his same job from home due to the school's lack of overhead costs. There is a chapter on it in my work from home book.
I got his email and sent him the chapter about teachers. I'm sure if he doesn't act immediately, and I mention it again he'll run through excuses. If I keep bringing it up he'll react negatively to me telling and showing him how to make over 100k a year doing his same job in the comfort of his own home. Human nature.
Back to game:
I tried to prime like 30-35 girls today. 15-ish of them intentionally avoided looking in my direction when they came into my approach domain so I couldn't force an IOI and I let them pass.
A couple would look down at their feet as they walked by. I think I have a bad belief system about these girls because I don't feel an urge to walk over and talk to them. Even though I know it's an IOI. One licked her lips and looked down at her feet as she walked past. I wanted to approach and should have so I consider this me being a little AA bitch.
One was following behind MIF and I while we spoke. I saw her in my peripheral, but it wasn't until MIF and I turned the corner and I looked back at her to see a sexy little woman. She went the opposite direction though and I don't thinking running through the mall to talk to a girl is a good look so I let her go.
The rest would just look away. To my knowledge this isn't an IOI so I didn't approach them.
MIF then pointed out to me that I am not improving because I'm relying on IOIs. I'm running an extremely easy game. It's true... I wanted to get better and start talking to maybe/no women, but I'm not really going after them.
The 15 girls who were distracted when they entered my approach vicinity. These women seem to be a constant so... I'll just cold approach.
He gave me an analogy about how there are two sides to the approach coin. The cold approach and what I was doing we called it the warm approach. With the cold approaches you don't care how the woman thinks about you. You go after everything you like.
I see the merits in his idea. If I were just only going after the positive IOI girls then yes I do miss out on the opportunity to blindly cold approach a girl with super low attraction. By just getting into the set you have an opportunity to game her and build her attraction up to the point where she may be willing to close.
MIF then questioned my ability to approach women. He felt all I could do was go after positive IOI girls. Again it's fine clearly that's the message that I'm sending with my actions.
I think he feels like my choice is dictated by women and I have no control over it. I mean you can't down me though. If another PUA and I went into a room that had 10 women in it. If we each had 5 girls in the room attracted to us I could calibrate myself in a way that allowed me to close all 5 of my yes women. The other PUA would run a routine or an un-calibrated "be yourself" thing which would turn some of his attracted yes women into un-attracted no women. He has less choice than I do. Who knows if the other PUA's routine would turn any of the maybe/no women into yes women if he simply cold approached everyone.
I do feel AA thinking about approaching girls who's attraction level is super low. The stuff that I know already doesn't seem to work well on girls who have super low attraction from the start in this small window situation we are gaming in.
Basically the girls are walking in the opposite direction from us. If her attraction is already low in a small window like that I have to put on a world class performance to get her.
Tomorrow, I'm going to daygame with MIF again, but I won't talk about game with MIF ever again as I'm sure it will lead to an argument and a falling out. I won't help him in the least I'm sure he won't mind so it will work out for everyone. I won't have to bother with giving helpful advice and he doesn't have to hear it. I really don't want to upset him because he's super cool, and being helpful is counter productive if it fucks up the rapport.
Side note the Uber driver who dropped me off at the Mall today was a true player. He's a true natural and he had this awesome Jamaican Accent. He told me about swinger parties and gave me some tips on three ways so I n closed him and we'll be getting a drink in the near future.
Specifically tomorrow I will:
Cold approach all of the interesting women who manage to avoid my primed approach, but haven't given any good or bad IOIs
Approach at least 1 set that has 2 or 3 women. I haven't been approaching sets with multiple women in them during the day.
Approach any woman who looks at her shoes after I've primed her, if she is pretty.
Approach women who give me bad IOIs so I can work on seduction skills needed to spike attraction in the maybe/no girls.
CHAT
) She's in the mall with her female cousin doing something. I switch the topic over to fashion. She then gives me some vague fashion tips, and I actually make suggestions to help her. It's funny watching women try to give me fashion tips.
I started feeding off his negative energy 
while I was talking to him, but I didn't want to be that guy in the mall being arrested and causing a scene. 
around me. The first time I met the hostess she told me her age and I stole some Justin Wayne line I saw in a video about a baby face for the younger girls. Unlike Justin I reach up from underneath and like for lack of a better term grabbed her face. I timed it with the word face and it was only about .01 seconds and I delivered it in a playful tone and made the action playful. She still reacted and my hand landed on top of her's which was on the table.